The idea of what you and your partner find good and bad while having sex depends on each individual’s and couple’s choices however in light of recent research, it wouldn’t be wrong to say that good sex feeds the body and good ALT BDSM feeds the mind. Sex is an act that fulfills you physically while BDSM is something that is more psychological, and that statement alone is enough to understand the kind of impact healthy BDSM can have the lives of submissive Sugar Daddies and dominant Sugar Babies.

Experts also say that sex and BDSM are not the same and are no entirely different as well. They can work as a stand-alone component of your relationship or can become a part of each other. Whatever the case the impact of BDSM on a couple’s relationship is immense and in building a great BDSM relationship one part is the most important than any and that is trust. Trust is a basic building block for vanilla relationships too but it becomes even more important when it comes to ALT BDSM and Sugar dating.

Why is Trust Crucial To BDSM Dating Success?
Offering the control of your mind and body to someone requires lots of trust and confidence in the other person. When a submissive gives his everything to a domme, he is practically making a statement. A statement that says that he as a submissive trust his domme to not break his trust which is exactly why being a dominatrix is not as easy as might seem. Accepting the submission of your submissive Sugar Daddy means that you acknowledge the trust that they have put in your and realize that it just takes a moment of negligence to break that trust which then becomes very difficult to earn back.

How Trust Works In a BDSM Relationship?
If you’ve not been involved in a BDSM relationship yourself, you might think that the partners involved in such a relationship are not equals, as one is the dominant one and other submits to commands. That is not true. For a BDSM relationship to work, the domme and submissive have to be massively dependent on each other. It is the trust between BDSM partners on which everything is based and built upon. Whenever a non-kink relationship gets disturbed it’s because of the lack of trust and respect; BDSM relationship is no different. When trust is taken out of a BDSM relationship it becomes abusive.

Constant Dialogue
What is another crucial building block other than trust needed to keep the relationship boat afloat? Communication. The act of indulging in BDSM practices with your submissive Sugar Daddy or dominant Sugar Baby requires constant communication, be it verbal or non-verbal. The better you communicate the better you’ll enjoy the power dynamics. It goes without saying that because BDSM is a psychological act, the emotions at play in such a relationship are huge as compared to those in a normal relationship which is without constant communication either partner can get hurt or feel unfulfilled.

Still Wondering Why BDSM Relationships Are a Success?
Trust and communication. Both the partner involved in either Sugar or ALT BDSM relationship know extremely well that without these two factors their relationship would not last long. When you have a partner who you trust unconditionally and can communicate honestly in case anything goes wrong, what could possibly cause such a relationship to go off-track? In a relationship where there are trust and open communication, both partners take care of each other’s needs at all times which leads to a sense of faithfulness, increased intimacy and less relationship stress hence forging the base for a long and happy relationship.