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Becoming a Dominatrix: A Short Beginner’s Guide To BDSM Life
Apr 20th, 2018 · Tips Tips

Like most people in the BDSM world you have probably been in a few vanilla relationships that have been very plain and left you wanting for something more. Maybe you even started to feel like you didn’t fit in anywhere because your desires were so much different from everyone you know. Did you ever consider yourself a freak? Well let me assure you that you are not a freak. You are a diamond in the rough. A Goddess in the making and highly prized. Now let’s bring out the beautiful Dominatrix that’s trapped inside of you.

The first thing you should do is research Domme/submissive relationships. There is a ton of information available about every aspect of the BDSM world. During your research you may come across some terms that may be unfamiliar to you, I know I did. That’s ok, you will soon understand the meanings of all those terms. Now you will also know the words that describe how you feel and your desires.

Now that you have done some research it’s time to seek out a BDSM community close to you, hopefully you have one, if not then you can find a community online. If you have a community close you should consider attending or hosting a munch. A munch is a get together of like-minded individuals, specifically in the BDSM lifestyle. This is a great place to gather information about the lifestyle. Here you can potentially meet an experienced Dominatrix.

A munch is also a great place to find a mentor. Seek out a Mistress that has similar interests as you do and ask her if she would mentor you in the lifestyle. A mentor will give you an invaluable source of information. She can help you find your first sub. Some may in let you practice with their sub, with supervision and guidance, of course. An experienced sub can also teach you a ton.

Now that you have a mentor and maybe even a sub take baby steps. Start slow and small, there’s no need to hurry. You’re first priority is always safety, so don’t try anything that you haven’t well researched. Always use safe words. If you are attempting something new, talk to your mentor and your sub first.

Now you are well on your way to becoming a knowledgeable Dominatrix. Continue to stay active in your local BDSM community. Never stop learning new techniques. Keep it fresh and exciting for yourself and any sub you may have now or in the future.

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