When done right, a good submissive girl can find submitting to the dominant daddy as the most fulfilling activity they have ever been a part of, however, many beginners and even experienced submissives find it hard to figure out how to be more submissive or aren’t consistent enough. Imagine an actor who does not know his role, he or she would be destined to failure, right? The same is the case with submissive and even dominants who dive into the relationship without first figuring out their role.

Submitting to someone requires means you’re completely dependent on someone. It takes immense commitment to the role and a consistent effort, mentally, psychologically and physically. This is why a submissive has to be very clear about who their dominant wants them to be in a BDSM relationship. Simply put, a sub is someone ready to give up control, but, more often than not, submissives are bound to lose their way in a d/s dynamic if they just leave the definition to what we just described.

Just like a BDSM relationship, that can be shaped and customized to look like a unique arrangement for a dominant and submissive, a submissive can take different roles too. But whatever they do, they do need to remember that real dominants do NOT like a doormat. They want someone who wants to submit to them and they’d like to do the work to make that happen. Before a submissive gets into a BDSM relationship, they need to understand that their dominant knows that they have needs too and where a dom makes the rules, the submissive will always have their say. Only when a submissive is clear about what their role is, can they go the extra mile for in BDSM dating.

Being a Good Submissive and its Challenges
Remaining in a submissive mindset all the time can be hard. More so when the sub and dom do not meet for an hour or two after weeks but are living together. We are all bound to screw up or have feelings of our own and it can be particularly challenging to cater to a dominant’s needs when a submissive girl needs her daddy to care for them. But the best way to get a dominant to care about you is also the simplest way: submit to them with all you have! A good dominant daddy will see your effort and reward you for it.

Another challenging aspect of being in a BDSM relationship is to be at your best submissive behavior when your dominant is not around. It is hard, but it is also the truest form of submission. Instead of playing unnecessary mind games or teasing the dominant, your best response to anything they say should be obedience.

Make Your Daddy’s Life Easier
The happier your dominant is the better your reward. At times the easiest way to do that can be outside of a scene. Find little things that can make your dominant’s life easier, but also remember to always go by the terms agreed and not challenge their authority. Your dominant should also be helping you remain in the submissive mindset most of the times, and an experienced knows how to do that. There’s a lot a submissive can do out of the dungeon for their daddy, but we’ll get to that later. First, let’s take a look at how to prepare yourself when you’re planning to take things up a notch.

Education, Level of Submission and Limits
First and foremost, educate yourself as much as you can, and do not stop ever. Learning in the BDSM world does not have to stop because there are thousands of different ways a BDSM relationship can be molded to make it your own. Read books, research online or, even better, join a BDSM network and meet like-minded to learn from their experience.

Since BDSM is a never-ending dynamic, have you ever thought what level of submission are you on? Where do you fit in the thousands of submissive out there? What’s your style? Yes, you have a style! Until you do not have yourself figured out, you can’t be a better submissive. Figure out your level of submission. What you like and what you don’t? What works for you and what are your limits? It’s ok to have limits as a submissive! After all, we are all humans.

How to be a Good Submissive Girl for Daddy?
Looking to go the extra mile while BDSM dating? Want to make your dominant partner even happier and satisfied? Anyone can submit while in a scene. Granted that how you perform while in a scene helps them see your dominant how you are at submitting, but, it does not end there. Have you ever tried to make efforts of out of the scene to show them you belong to them?

The best that can happen to a dominant is a submissive that is willing to learn from their behaviors and can make their life easier without minimal instructions. Spend time figuring out their different moods and phases and the level of involvement they like from you in each. Once you have gathered enough data, you can now turn to other forms of submission, such as lightening their mood or just doing chores, running errands and cleaning the house clean! Better known as domestic submission, this form of submitting to your dominant tells them you are willing to do a lot more than just intimacy to please your master.

Aiding them or even taking full responsibility of chores around the house can help make your dominant feel at ease and can provide a sense of accomplishment for you. Although routine work, running simple errands can make you feel proud that you have been of use to your dominant. However, be careful. If you think you are about to do something that he wouldn’t want to delegate to you, always make sure you ask first! You do want to go above and beyond for them, but you don’t want to make them feel that you’re bypassing their authority.

Submitting to your master can be extremely rewarding, but remember that if you have a daddy that lets you walk around the house on your own, doing chores, they are doing it because they trust you with it. Never take their trust for granted. Instead, feel honored that you have dominant who trusts you enough to now be at a place where you can show him your level of commitment to him by doing stuff that requires minimal supervision from his side.