As a dominatrix in a BDSM relationship, keeping your kinky slave submissive in chastity has its benefits but also comes with a great responsibility. Contrary to popular belief, being a dominatrix isn’t an easy task and if you add to that the challenging task of control when your submissive sexually releases, being a domme becomes an even more daunting of a task for beginners. Similarly, for the submissive to be able to lock an organ of his part and handing its control to the dominant isn’t an easy job either.
Chastity in BDSM relationships is not for those who are just experimenting with dominant-submissive relationships. It is an extreme level activity and requires from the domme to earn an extreme level of trust from the submissive. Despite its challenging nature, chastity is a common fantasy of many kink practitioners. It can be difficult when it’s at the earliest of stages, however, if a submissive and dominant pass these initial stages, they can start benefiting from having a chastity device on the submissive.
For a submissive to know that by putting on a chastity device he is serving her mistress is exciting. He knows he is doing what the dominant expects of her. Even when he is not with her, a submissive in chastity is obeying her dominatrix’s demands. Listed below are some of the benefits of keeping your kinky slave in chastity.
A Great Submissive
Believe it or not, keeping your kinky slave in chastity will make him improve as a submissive and with that your BDSM relationship will elevate to newer heights. As a submissive in chastity, he will know that the only way to release himself is to be a good submissive and please you. As a result, he will submit in a better way. Moreover, since he will be bound not to ejaculate when he is finally allowed to have sex with you, he will perform much better.
His orgasms will be stronger, something he hasn’t experienced for a long time since he probably masturbated often. Masturbating regularly can have an effect on orgasms, but since you control that now, he will only have the chance of a sexual release with you. As said before, when a submissive gets to know that his only chance at any kind of sexual activity is when you want him, he will become better any every aspect.
Relationship Becomes Stronger
As his sex organ gets locked, your submissive starts to realize that a BDSM relationship is so much more than just kinks and fetishes. This encourages both of you to get to know each other more. When you communicate more the relationship automatically gets stronger. You have more time to discuss your interests and hobbies out of the play room. Getting to know each other better will eventually lead both of you to care for each other. It will also shape into a better dominatrix and submissive.
No Cheating
Chastity or no chastity, a submissive should never cheat on his domme and vice versa (unless cuckolding is involved of course). Thinking that a domme is not there and masturbating also constitutes as breaking the rules of your arrangement. Although she won’t know it, you have broken out of the boundary she defined. However, when a dominatrix puts her submissive in chastity, she can be sure of the fact that he won’t be able to cheat her. This increases trust.
This is especially perfect for submissive and dommes who have a significant gap in between meet-ups. Both of you will be thinking about each other when apart and when you finally meet each other, the level of intimacy will blow you away. The dynamics of a submissive-dome relationship get taken to a new level with the chastity factor involved.
Easy To Control
Chastity reinforces the power of a domme. Suddenly the submissive becomes even more obeying and accommodating of his dominatrix’s demands. He will be ready to submit even more, but it is the domme who has to take care that everything is still consensual and within his limits. That being said, a Chasity device significantly increases the power a domme has over her slave.
He’ll Feel Good
Men masturbate, some do it often, some don’t, but most men do think that they masturbate very often. This is something they resent. With a chastity device in place, your submissive won’t be able to masturbate. He’ll feel more confident about himself and will credit you with the positive change, increasing your respect. With pleasuring himself out of the equation, all of his sexual power will be channeled towards you. In addition to that, sex will not be on mind when he’s not with you. He will become more productive throughout the day. Once he’s with you, he will make sure your needs are met so he can then have his need of sexual satisfaction fulfilled.
