Being a submissive or dominatrix can teach you a lot about your mind, spirit, and body. When you first start dating a dominatrix or submissive you might have your doubts but once you have settled down in a BDSM relationship you will know how much it has taught you about your body, yourself and even your life. Controversies and misinformation have always clouded BDSM relationships; here we take a look why it is healthy and rewarding about being in a BDSM relationship.
Brain – The Largest Sex Organ
The aspect a domme and submissive enjoy both while dating each other is the mind games and the feelings that come with it. After all, our brain is our biggest sex organ and when a submissive provides the domme with a deep access to his mind, body, and heart, it is bound to create ecstatic feelings for both. Partners in a BDSM relationship are more alive and aware of their sexuality and are constantly in a learning process of what appeals to them and what does not.
Your Sexual Senses Awakened
Why does a submissive behave this way, giving all his control to a domme, ready to follow her orders? When a submissive is around a strong and decisive person who is powerful and possesses a specific skill set it makes them feel more of a sexual being. While we all have a sexual being inside of us at all times, being with a dominatrix awakens that being; a feeling that is only felt in a BDSM partners’ company.
A Sensual Journey
When you are in a BDSM relationship, being a domme and submissive becomes a part of that relationship and is not everything. There are other factors where a dominatrix and submissive need to be highly compatible when in a committed relationship. When you love someone, your BDSM playtime becomes a special journey you both embark on, which makes your intimate moments together all the more special. A journey of such sorts enables a domme and submissive to explore themselves. Sex is not something ordinary in a BDSM relationship, rather it becomes an extension of this breathtaking journey making the act of having sex even more exciting.
A Responsible Dominatrix
Lastly, when in a BDSM relationship it is a common misconception that a submissive is a doormat and the dominant has all the power. Granted the domme does have all control in a BDSM relationship, however, she does take into account a submissive’s desires and wants. She listens closely, ask questions and puts in the effort so herself and her submissive and can safely explore all their kinks and fetishes. A dominatrix has to act highly responsibly, only then both the BDSM partners be mentally, emotionally and sexually satisfied.
