The BDSM world is vast and includes various kinds of kinks and fetishes and although every individual has their own preference, the daddie Dom DDLG fetish is the fastest growing fetish among kinky Sugar Babies. So what is a Daddie-Dom relationship and how does it function? A Daddie is still essentially a dominant and assumes the role of his little’s Daddy under the same submissive dominant dynamic that prevails in their BDSM relationship. Misconceived by many, the Daddies Dom fetish does not qualify as an incest activity at all. Granted that its name sounds weird but then don’t all fetishes sound weird when we first hear of them? It is only when we learn about and then practice them that we come to know about the many dimensions a certain fetish encompasses.
A Daddy Dom and Little Girl relationship is governed by the same power exchange dynamics agreed at the start of a BDSM arrangement. Since a Daddy Dom fetish involves a little and her daddy, it is perfect for Sugar Babies because Sugar Babies are generally younger than their Sugar Daddies who can act out the role of their Daddy much better than anyone else. A Daddy Dom relation is perfect for kink loving sugar partners and can be enjoyed non-sugar partners too. Whatever the power-exchange dynamic between the partners, the arrangement always remains consensual and safe at all times.
You cannot force a submissive to submit. A submissive will only submit if they know their dominant will take care of them and this goes for the little in a relationship with her daddy too. A Daddy Dom assumes the role of someone who can take care of his little girl. Daddy Dom is a fetish that can integrate well with both the sugar and BDSM world. Let’s dig deeper to learn about this popular fetish.
The Daddie Dome fetish is commonly known as DDLG which stands for Daddy Dom Little Girl. Just like many others, this is just another extension of a dominant-submissive relationship. The Daddy Dom fetish is not exclusive to men only, and similar to many other fetishes it has its variations for women to take the lead role too. The DDLG is commonly considered a softer fetish in the BDSM world but the terms of a DDLG are completely dependent on the submissive and dominant involved. Moreover, like any other BDSM activity and kink, the BDSM fetish requires both partners to trust and respect each other.
Defining Rules For A DDLG
The beauty of any BDSM relationship is that are no rules and there can be many because you decide what happens and the extent of it. You and BDSM partner make the rules and can customize them according to your desires. However, even with terms agreed upon, a Daddie needs to understand his responsibility of taking care of his Little Girl.
Furthermore, Communication remains crucial in order for a DDLG to succeed. If you want to try something you just saw on the internet recently, don’t just proceed without telling your Little. She might not mind it, but trying something without telling her first is a significant breach of trust. One can adapt the DDLG as an activity to be performed for a few hours or apply to their everyday routine completely. Due to the age gap between sugar partners, any kink loving Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby can make for excellent partners in a DDLG relationship.
Laying The Foundation
First and foremost, a Daddy Dom and his Little Girl must have open and honest communication at all times. Communication leads to partners trusting each other more and hence being more aware of each other’s desires. Only then can a Little Girl trust her Daddie to respect the boundaries they set. So, the first step to a successful DDLG relationship is getting to know each other as much as possible. If any concerns arise, discuss them right there and then instead of sweeping them under the rug.
A BDSM relationship is a delicate affair and can easily be disturbed even if the slightest of distrust is introduced into the relationship. The best way to go about a DDLG arrangement is to discuss everything in advance and understand what’s alright and what’s not. You can’t establish boundaries without getting to know your partner.
Role of Daddy Dom & Little Girl
The Little Girl expects her Daddy Dom to keep her satisfied and safe. Again, deciding what would make a Little Girl happy can only be done by discussing her desires thoroughly. She may want you to dominate her, or just take care of her. If you are new to BDSM or DDLG, it might take a while before you can get the hang of how you’re supposed to behave as a Daddy Dom.
As a Little Girl, it is your responsibility to not hold back and let yourself be at the disposal of your Daddie to make him feel in charge. Show him that you are truly dependent on him, only then will he take pride in being your Daddy Dom. That being said, you shouldn’t hurry and let your new role take over personality gradually.
Don’t Fall Into Routine
Like any other activity, a DDLG only remains interesting if you don’t let it become routine. Routine is boring. This can be done by having a life out of your BDSM relationship and meeting each other as regular man and girl when you aren’t a Daddy Dom and Little Girl. This way you won’t get too dependent on your partner and would keep each other coming back for more. Always keep things under control and don’t get a DDLG relationship overwhelm you. There is no harm in evaluating how far you’ve progressed as a Daddy Dom and Little Girl every now and then. It gives you a chance to reflect and get you ready to explore even more.