If you’ve been into BDSM you know very well how a power exchange experience can be life-altering. In fact, you’ve grown on to like these experiences so much that you now no longer want them to be occasional. You are a wealthy and successful man who leads an organization and used to visit dominatrix to get away from the stress of making decisions all day and let someone else be in control for a while. Now you want the feeling of being liberated even more which is why you’re looking for someone to start a BDSM relationship with. And if you have made up your mind about starting a BDSM relationship, we are here to tell you that this is something you can’t go wrong with.

BDSM relationships and femdom dating bring a new and exciting dimension to the power exchange you were already experiencing. This decision will take you away from a play partner and towards a BDSM lifestyle. Yes, you have already found someone you can start dating as a domme but would you care to make it even more interesting? Since you’re a wealthy man, why not introducing sugar into your relationship and make it a BDSM-Sugar arrangement? Seem exciting, right?!

Negotiation is Your Savior
Negotiation and coming with relationship terms are crucial when starting a BDSM relationship, and when the sugar aspect gets involved too, negotiating becomes even more essential. It is a primary need for your arrangement to work like a well-oiled machine. Not only does it keep both the submissive sugar daddy and dominant sugar baby safe, but it also makes sure both of your needs get fulfilled. When you start negotiating, both you are basically building a world for yourselves with kinks, fetishes and fantasies you once dreamed of.

Through this process, you get to know more about your kinky partner’s desire which helps the best experiences for both of you. There’s no better way to enjoy a BDSM Sugar relationship and femdom dating than by agreeing to certain terms which define what your relationship will be like.

Negotiate Before Starting
Negotiate before starting and by starting we mean, starting your relationship a BDSM scene or basically anything that involves a power exchange. When you ignore this stage, think it can happen later and start a scene together, you’re putting yourself and your domme under unnecessary pressure. Once you’ve felt what it’s like being with them and they interest you, you’ll probably sacrifice on some of desires or kinks just to be with them. Conversely, you might not like what you just experienced with your submissive Sugar Daddy or dominant Sugar Baby and maybe an agreement with clear terms would have made the outcome more positive.

Being sexually aroused can lead you not think straight and you might miss important information. Negotiate before the start of your fendom dating relationship because it only happens once and steers your relationship towards the path you want it to be on.

Define Dos and Don’ts
Talk in detail and be specific about what you want from your BDSM arrangement mistress or slave. You can find lists online with kinky terms you should add to your agreement. These kinds of lists can give you ideas you might not have thought before. While you definitely consider what each of you wants, also talk about what you do not want. Limits are important too. Nothing kills the mood in a scene like a negative emotional response and negotiation can prevent that.

Also, when thinking about the sugar aspect of your femdom relationship, discuss the perks and benefits both of you will enjoy. Since, she is dominant and is your sugar baby too, discussing specific roles as expressively as possible will do good to the arrangement.

Domme & Sugar Baby
Any good dominatrix in the femdom dating and BDSM scene knows that she is actually not in control of a BDSM relationship and is instead an equal partner as mistress to her slave. Yes, she is dominant but being a dominatrix is a great responsibility too. She has to not abuse the power and take care of her submissive’s needs.

Dominance is much more than just flogging and spanking. Even a look or an expression can communicate dominance to your submissive. Similarly, being submissive is much more than just obeying your mistress. By involving sugar into your BDSM relationship, a submissive has now one more way to please her domme. It is a win-win situation as a submissive Sugar Daddy is happy because he is making his dominant Sugar Baby happy. And she is more satisfied, leading to her putting even more effort into taking care of your needs in an even better way.