So you had an amazing night together and as you head home you’re wondering if they are as turned on as you are right now. Sometimes our wavelengths match and sometimes they don’t and while that is perfectly alright, you can always put in some effort to set the mood to spice up things after a romantic dinner date. We list down the secret ingredients of setting the mood after an exciting night out.

Turn It Off!
First things first, in order to completely focus on your partner and turn them on you need to first turn off everything that might distract you. In this age of smartphones, it is hard to put your phones aside but for the sake of your relationship you will have to do it or the moment will pass.

Seduce Them
If you’re a dominatrix as soon as you get home, change and put on that sexy outfit you know turns your submissive on. If you’re a submissive you could try cross-dressing if she likes that; surprise her and she might want to take you right there and then!

Alternatively, dim the lights in your bedroom or try something that you know makes your domme go crazy. Remember it’s the little things in life. You could also try to recreate something from your first dates. When you indulge in intimacy with someone for the first time, there is a 90% chance you remember that. Step out of the closet wearing those frills and high heels she made you wear on your first date and see how she reacts.

Try Something New
Do you have a fetish you’ve never discussed with your partner because you think they might not like it? Since you both had such a great time together tonight, your submissive might be up for trying that activity you both had agreed to bring into the relationship once you get comfortable enough. Whether you’re a submissive or a domme, tonight is the night to get out of your comfort zone and try something new!

Submit To Her
Reach for her feet or gently start massaging her back, if she starts enjoying it ask her where she wants to be touched next. Submit to her when making decisions, tease her inner domme by questioning her if she would like you to do the dishes or keep massaging you instead. She might get aroused by you asking her for approval or get mad at you for asking questions and not waiting for her command. Whatever the case you have now successfully awakened the resting mistress, prepare to get dominated!