A perfect relationship is made up of many different components, most of them interlinked with each other. Over time you take into account factors such as honesty, truthfulness, sexual compatibility and a whole lot of other stuff that eventually leads you to someone who you decide you can have a long-term relationship with. Looking for your best match isn’t easy and takes a lot of work and dating the wrong people before you end with the one you really wanted to be and if you are a submissive looking for someone who could dominate you, things can get really difficult.
If you are on the lookout for a domme you’ve practically already rejected loads of other women who are just not into BDSM. That being said, people are now becoming more and more expressive about their sexuality but still you won’t find out if she likes BDSM and is willing to become a domme. So, how does one go about finding a dominant girlfriend?
Define Your Perfect Domme
Before you take steps to prepare yourself to date a domme, it’s important you ask yourself the right set of questions. Define yourself first, think of who you are and what do you want from this woman. Some people aren’t submissive in their everyday routine and crave for a dominatrix once in a while, someone who would let them be free for a set of time so they can forget about the stress of taking decisions and let her be in control. Others, however, want someone who could play a leading and guiding role from their everyday routine to sex, someone to submit and be in control of them; a mistress to be precise. Are you looking for something temporary or a long-term BDSM relationship?
You could also then define what your perfect domme would act like. Think of some kinks and fetishes you’d like to be a part of your relationship. This way you’ll be answering questions for yourself and her, which will come in handy when you first meet. You’ll already what you’re looking for and be in a better position to make a decision.
Where To Find A Dominatrix?
If you’re open about your sexual inclination towards BDSM and won’t mind to be seen in a public as a submissive then you could always try to get connected with BDSM communities in your city. You’ll have to attend parties and get to know amazing women who are looking for subs. If you do decide to show up at such an event, it is very important to do your homework and be clear about your preferences as we discussed earlier.
Another way of finding someone who’d be up for a dominating role in a relationship is to look around yourself. Is there someone at work who you feel is an independent and strong lady and would love to be treated as a queen? If you do, you could always ask her out on a date. When you starting dating, try submitting to her for everyday choices, let her choose which movie to watch or restaurant you’ll be dining out today. If she enjoys making decisions, you should then open up to her and communicate what you desire. Although it’d be difficult to tell if she likes kinky stuff from the start…. unless you met her at a BDSM dating site.
In this age of technological advancement where we all rely on your smart devices, who says you can’t find the women of your dreams? Meeting someone on a BDSM website is a sure way of knowing she is into BDSM, why else would she be there! Moreover, meeting a domme online is a great idea since you’ll get an idea of your kink compatibility before you actually meet. At dommez.com we have hundreds of dommes in search of a submissive plus we take privacy very seriously; if you’re a submissive only a registered user can see your information. All you have to do is browse through the listed profiles and start getting to know someone you like today!
