Do you not know how to satisfy your lover’s rubber, leather or latex fetish or are you having trouble in familiarizing yourself with what rubber or latex fetishism actually is? Worry not because this kink dating article will act as a crash course of sorts for those wanting to learn more about rubber and leather fetish in BDSM. Leather or latex fetish can simple defined as being attracted to people who are wearing latex or leather. The people practicing these fetishes often refer to themselves with different names such as rubberists.
But how could one feel sexually charged because of leather, latex or rubber? Well, there is no right or wrong answer to that question. Every one of us has different preferences and we are amused by different aspects of sex. In the case of leather or latex fetish practitioners, they get sexually aroused around leather, latex or rubber garments and toys.
How Does This Fetish Work?
Since both leather and latex do not float loose around one’s body but instead stick to the body, they act as a very fine layer which qualifies as a second skin. This second skin is free from any wrinkles or other factors that would show imperfections of a person. The overall feel of leather or latex is shiny. Wearing leather or latex as fetish wear has benefits for both the dominant and the submissive. As a dominant wearing this kind of fetish wear, all of your imperfections are hidden under this new second skin. You feel empowered and confident and are better dominant as a result.
As a confident person, you become more attractive to your submissive. Your outlook is more strong and free of any insecurities. As a result, the BDSM experience becomes more appealing. As we all know, fetishes and kinks in the BDSM lifestyle are vast and can have several meanings to several different people. For some, watching a leather-clad Domme is equal to watching them naked and for others, a shiny latex second skin exudes purity. For others, just the smell of rubber is enough to turn them on.
With a leather or latex suit, you are presented with an identity which allows behaving in a certain manner. Soon after practicing scenes with leather or latex fetish wear on, both the submissive and dominant are conditioned to only submit or dominate with leather, latex or rubber around. Leather or latex fetish wear leads to a state of mind rather than just objects. Latex and leather are something that isn’t only a part of BDSM but is also now readily seen in mainstream media.
How To Satisfy Your Lover’s Leather or Latex Fetish?
As mentioned above, since we are all different and there are endless dynamics to kink dating, there is no one way to satisfy each submissive or dominant. Some people are turned on when they see their lover dressed up in leather or latex. Every factor in each fetish can differ on individual presences and the latex fetish is no different. For instance, most BDSM practitioners use jet-black as the go-to coloraturas for all their leather fetish wear but some prefer other vibrant or matte colors.
Moreover, those who are more experienced take the leather and latex experience outside by wearing fetish wear out in the public. It is all about how badly your partner wants it and how comfortable are they with the idea of submitting in public. However, even if they aren’t a fan of publicly exposing their BDSM role, the option of wearing leather undergarments can be explored. Furthermore, it is not always about the exterior feel for those who are into this fetish. Fetish wear is one thing and there are many other ways of incorporating leather, latex or rubber in your BDSM lifestyle. A fine example of this is leather accessories and sex toys.
It should be clarified that leather or latex fetish can be practiced independently of any sexual activity. All that is required of you is to cater to your BDSM partner’s desires and this is where honest communication comes in. Maybe they are turned on by just having your around wearing leather fetish wear. Whatever the individual presences, being closer to what one loves empowers them and hence enables them to become a better submissive or dominant, leading to an increasingly better intimacy with BDSM partners.
One of the most important ingredients of a successful BDSM relationship and kink dating is setting limits. Talk to them about how far would be enough for them. Have a detailed talk about expectations and limitations. Remember them and do not get carried away in the spur of the moment. Decide on a safe word and use it when things get out of hand. Using safe words and agreeing on limits increases trust which is the building block of any lasting BDSM relationship.