Being in a BDSM relationship you and your partner most definitely have common fetishes and kinks but whether you know it or not there still must be sexual fetish you have but have not realized it yet. Sexual fetishes are completely normal and if one person’s fetish sounds weird to you that doesn’t mean that their fetish is wrong or invalid. Being a domme or submissive you both know there’s nothing wrong with kinks and fetishes being introduced into our sex lives.
It is safe to say that we all have some sexual fetishes we want to explore with our partners but if you are comfortable discussing your fetishes with your submissive Sugar Daddy that doesn’t mean it’s the same for him. He might not be very comfortable talking about his fetishes with you because of the fear of them being rejected.
When your submissive Sugar Daddy doesn’t tell you his fetishes there’s no way of you knowing them but you can always keep your eyes and ears open for some hints he might be dropping. So how do you know if your partner has a sexual fetish he wants to explore with you? Listed below are some signs that your partner has a kinky interest he wants to try out with you.
Starts Talking About Fetishes In General
Suppose you and your submissive Sugar Daddy are enjoying a romantic dinner. Out of nowhere your submissive mentions a certain fetish and says that its normal. You stop, think of just what happened and agree with him, but what you don’t understand is how you went from a delicious dinner to talking about a fetish. He might even continue talking about how normal that fetish is even after you’ve agreed that it is.
Discusses Different Fetishes To Check Your Response
It’s a calm weekend night, you are watching a TV show and being the domme have asked your submissive to give a foot rub. While massaging your feet your submissive suddenly mentions trampling and asks your opinion about it. You casually answer their question but before you know it they are already explaining the basics of trampling and different sorts of other foot and shoe fetishes. The discussion and your submissive’s question seems out of place; regardless you listen to what he has to say and get back to enjoying the foot rub.
Says a Particular Fetish Sounds Interesting
You are at work, busy in preparing a presentation for pitching to your company’s next big potential client. Your phone beeps, you look down and see you’ve received a text from your submissive Sugar Daddy saying a certain fetish sounds interesting. Your attention gets diverted, you think of what he just said and tell him to discuss this later with you after work. Before you even get home in the evening, you get another text with content similar to the one you received in the morning. At this point, you start to think whether your Sugar Daddy is trying to tell you something.
Proposes To Watch Porn Together
When you get home, your submissive pops up the idea of watching porn together after dinner tonight. Being dominant in the relation it is up to you to accept or reject the idea. Being the open-minded person that you are, you accept the idea. He puts a porn clip and you realize the video has a submissive and domme practicing the same fetish he texted you this morning. Things are now getting a bit clearer.
Jokes About Practicing The Fetish With You
There is a reason why your submissive has not expressed he wants to practice a certain fetish with you. He’s your submissive, he must be afraid of whether his domme would like the idea or not. However, there are chances that after dropping all kinds of hints he might just try and joke about practicing the fetish with you. This way he has transferred the idea to you but has also saved himself from any rejection from your side. By now you must be secretly hoping that he just comes out and say what he wants but it is now up to you to let him of your acceptance.
Once a dominant Sugar Baby figures out her submissive wants to explore a new kink, it’s now up to her to respond to his request. Best case scenario for both the submissive and the dominant is that the fetish he just mentioned is something you liked too. However, if you are not sure about the fetish he has suggested you could come up with another one from the same domain or you could ask for some time to think about it. Another way of familiarizing yourself with a fetish is to conduct a little research together or watch porn together.