The act of moving in with your partner is a sign of the positive progress in any BDSM relationship. Some people prefer moving in after marriage while others do it when they think they have reached a certain level of trust and commitment with their partner. Whatever the reason may be, making the decision of moving with your dominatrix takes a certain level of preparedness. On the other hand, before letting her submissive move in with her, the domme has to prepare herself and her home for a partner. A BDSM relationship is different from a traditional one in several aspects but at the core of it a BDSM relationship still requires two people to communicate well and take care of each other’s needs.

Spend Your Time Before Moving In
When you meet someone new you tend to fall head over heels for them but moving in with his dominatrix might not be the right option for the submissive until both of them of spending enough time together to be able to understand each other. Before you decide to move in, you should go out on dates, get past the few meetings and then if you feel you are the fit for each other you can start spend a few weekends at your domme’s place to check your moving-in compatibility. Doing this gives you the chance to learn about their habits and quirks and seeing how you handle being around each other.

Make Them Feel Welcome
Home is where you keep all your favourite stuff. If a domme has decided to let her submissive move in she should make him feel welcome by making space for him in her home. It may range from assigning him a space in your cupboard or making sure his foods and drinks are present in the fridge. Also, even if you have moved in with each other it doesn’t mean you have to be around each other all the time. Give each other space and personal time so you don’t start getting tired of each other.

Conflicts
Moving with a domme means, a dominatrix and submissive will be altering their routines to fit each others. This means there can be conflicts at the starts and talking about them to find ways to solve these problems is very important. Communicate with each when such conflicts arise and discuss how both of you can compromise to get over these issues and keep your BDSM relationship healthy.

Date Night
Although you’ve moved in together and are sleeping in the same bed every night it doesn’t mean that planning special night outs with your BDSM partner has to cease altogether. The occasional date night is just as important as it was before to keep the spark alive in your relationship. Get dressed and go out for dinner before coming home for a sexy BDSM play time with your submissive or domme.