Role playing is an amazing way to turn up the sexual intensity in any relationship and the effect is even larger when in a BDSM relationship. Adding role-playing to a BDSM relationship can further increase authority and control of a mistress and also provide the submissive with an enhanced opportunity to obey his dominant. It is a great way of exploring your partner and your sexuality but role-playing can turn bad if not done right. Here’s what you need to know before incorporating role-playing to your BDSM relationship.

Choose Your Scene
Firstly, you need to know what fantasies in terms of role-play are. Like kinks, and fetishes there are hundreds of role-playing scenarios and to know which ones exactly do you and your submissive want is the single most important step to successful role-playing. A domme should sit down and talk with your submissive about scenes. A great way to up the ante is to go shopping for costumes which will make sure both of you are owning the characters you’ve assigned to each other.

Decide On Components Of A Scene
Once you’ve determined what you and your partner want, now try narrowing down what is the most important of a specific role-playing scene to each of you. Do the outfits turn you on more or is dirty talk more important for your submissive? Try to figure out the important components of your scene. Knowing what turns his domme or her submissive wants, both partners in a BDSM relationship can take care of each other’s needs and intensify the scene even further.

Stay In Character
Once you’ve started a role-playing scene any of you can often stray off their character but for a role-playing scene to work well make sure you stick to your character as long as you can. Make the area you’re doing the scene at look like the place the role-playing characters belong to. For instance, if it is a hospital scene involving a nurse and a patient, making some changes in your room to make it look like a hospital room will help a domme and submissive get in the mood. Forget the real world for a while and embrace the environment you’ve created for your scene.

Mistakes Will Be Made
Remember, when role-playing, you are both playing a character and it is not the real you which is why everything might not go right. Keep things light and just try to stick to the script and character in a role-play scene but don’t take it seriously if one of you messes up. What matters is both of you are having a good time.