The BDSM world is vast and a never-ending one and strap-on and pegging is just another fetish for kinky domes and submissives. Some have a proper introduction to this fetish and some want to and do not know much about the same. If you have always been curious about what pegging actually is or are actually thinking of trying it out, you have arrived at the right place. Whether you are a submissive or a domme, the pegging fetish is equally rewarding for both. Here’s your chance to familiarize yourself with the fetish you have only fantasied about up til now and take the next step. Let’s look at what pegging means.

Introduction to Pegging
Pegging is also referred to as strap-on play which helps clarify the meaning of the word to a large extent. Pegging simply means that the domme wears a dildo and penetrates her submissive. The fetish has become increasingly popular these days with quite a few celebrities making it to the mainstream media because of their involvement or strap-on play practice.

The practice is equally exciting for both the submissive and domme. For BDSM partners, pegging brings another stronger dimension to the power exchange. The domme gets a chance to exercise her dominance on her submissive in its entirety, whereas the submissive gets an opportunity how willing he is to completely submit to his domme. Fetishes such as these also improve the level of trust amongst the BDSM partner because a submissive sees for himself that even in the most demanding of situations his dominant is capable of taking care of both their needs without abusing her power.

Why Male Submissives Enjoy Getting Pegged?
Apart from the fact that males experience organic pleasure when pegged because it stimulates their p-spot, there is a psychological aspect to why male submissives enjoy strap-on play as well. When vanilla partners engage in the strap-on fetish, the domme experience psychological pleasure by feeling a sense of power over the male and the male enjoys the act physically. The great thing about pegging when in a BDSM relationship is that the dominant and submissive both enjoy the physically and psychologically simultaneously.

The submissive chooses the BDSM lifestyle because he loves to submit, and he gets a chance to do just that when pegged. A domme opts for the BDSM dynamic because she likes dominating and pegging provides for the ultimate chance to control and dictate your position as a dominant in the relationship. Once you have decided to take the step to put your knowledge about pegging to practice, here’s how you should go about it.

Open Communication at All Times
Any kinky fetish cannot be just practiced immediately. There are many crucial aspects, such as consent, involved and if either of the partners is unaware of the fetish there’s a learning curve too. If you feel pegging is something you should try, take your partner in confidence. Spend some time with them learning all about this new fetish and discuss how can make the initial stages easy for both.

Only when you know enough about the fetish can you enjoy the fetish and not be stressed. Pegging might feel strange at the start and as a submissive, you might feel that your domme isn’t just good enough. Women aren’t natural at generating because well…they don’t have a penis, which is why it will take her some time and practice to learn the kinky art.

Keep The Stress Away
Talk to your partner in detail and educate them about every little detail. If they still feel that the activity is too much, you don’t have a choice but to not practice the fetish. If you ask for it a lot, he might still do it but he won’t be into it which would make the experience less exciting for both. Intimate moments are never enjoyable when one is stressed or pressurized.

When discussing the fetish make your submissive feel that it is as much rewarding for you as for him. Instead of persuading him, portray the activity as one that is fun for both. Sure you are the dominant in this relationship but the place to excursive your dominance isn’t when you are introducing a new kink in your life, it comes later when you are practicing it.

Buy the Right Stuff
When you start pegging, you don’t go on and buy just another dildo. We recommend you get involved with an expert and help them choose you the best gear. Also, consult with your partner and judge how hard and soft can you start. Talk to him and try to evaluate the level of pegging he can take and your starting point which would help you choose the right stuff.