Are you a dominatrix looking to spice things up in the bedroom with your submissive? Look no further, strap-on play could be your answer! With the right techniques and correct usage of the strap-on, you could send your submissive over the moon as you penetrate him while also enhancing the experience of the existing powerful side of yourself while having sex. Proper strap-on pay has the power to make your submissive scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to a domme.

Why Strap-on Play
BDSM play has loads of dimensions to it and when a domme or submissive could be trying a whole lot of things, one might ask what is so special about adding strap-on play to your BDSM playtime. In the act of sex, penetrating someone is the road to climax. While BDSM play can satisfy many of your kinks and fetishes, penetrating a submissive as a domme takes things to a whole new level. The feeling of power you feel when inserting the dildo attached to your strap-on inside your submissive is not something you will have experienced before. As always you are in control of your submissive pleasure. When a submissive sees his dominatrix wearing a strap-on coming towards him, it can make the whole space elevate to a new level of electric!

Start Slow
Like many other intense forms of BDSM play, it is important your start slow with strap-ons. Rushing into any form of BDSM play can scare your submissive off to an extent that it may take some time for him to try it again. Granted a domme-submissive relationship is all about pushing boundaries, but feeling uncomfortable is something else. If you want this sort of activity to feel normal to your submissive, starting slow and building towards more intense sessions is the way to go. You could first try strap-on play on special occasions and work towards making it a regular part of their BDSM relationship if she wants.

Get Him Interested
You have brought up the topic of strap-on play with your submissive but haven’t got a satisfactory reaction out of him, what do you do? You are dominant in the relationship, use the power you have over him and simply point him in the direction you want. However, keep in mind you have certain responsibilities as a dominatrix. A submissive never says but a domme is supposed to take care of her submissive. Of course, not every submissive will be over-excited about the idea of having strap-on sex, some might not time to get used to the idea.

When done right, strap-on play can bring a domme and submissive closer and help increase intimacy dramatically. Strap-on play is not everyone’s cup of tea but if you give it a try you will be surprised about just how much of an effect it can have on helping you grow fond of each other.