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What is a Female Led Relationship Or FLR In BDSM Dating?
Oct 8th, 2018 · Dating Dating

A female led relationship or FLR is a relationship many times BDSM in which the women are in a leading or dominant role and the man embraces her as the leader in their relationship. Women can be found in leading positions all around us, from executives at a company to leaders in the United Nations but we are discussing today are dynamics of men wanting women to lead them in their personal lives.

There is no one side to a female led relationship. Some men may be extremely successful and wealthy but would want to serve the lady in their life when at home. Others want a more amped version of the FLR in the form of a BDSM relationship. In a BDSM female led relationship, being led by a women moves even further from just letting her make all the decisions. It becomes extremely personal, erotic and fulfilling for both the man and woman who have now become a domme and submissive.

FLR in BDSM Dating
A BDSM arrangement can be so intense that explaining to someone who has experienced it may even make no sense to him. However, if being in a power exchange relationship with your domme or submissive is what you want, you shouldn’t let the views of anyone else bother you. FLR in BDSM can evolve from a simpler stage a more intense one with time. However, no matter what the stage of your FLR, it is always the woman who makes the decisions and sets the direction for your female led relationship.

FLR in BDSM is governed by a certain set of terms which are agreed upon by the domme and submissive at the start of the relationship. Agreeing to rules is pivotal to a BDSM relationships success because it helps both to remain in the fantastical world of power exchange and acts as a base upon which the relationship is built.

Variations of Female Led Relationships
Not all FLRs have BDSM involved in them. BDSM is just one of many forms a female-led relationship can take. Even a BDSM relationship can take several forms based what the submissive and domme want. The level of a BDSM female ld relationship they choose would then determine the activities that take place in that power exchange arrangement.

From washing dishes to fulfilling each other’s fetishes, a submissive is always expected to do as the dominatrix says. How committed is a submissive is determined by how loyal he is to the rules that were decided at the start of this female-led BDSM relationship. If he breaks any rules a dominant can punish her submissive. A BDSM relationship is an emotional roller coaster and it gives the chance to a domme and submissive to connect to each other physically and psychologically like never before. For that happen, following the set rules is crucial.

Honesty
Being honest means being true in whatever is bring coveted from your side to your domme or submissive. This can involve the details regarding your life which will eventually affect how they perceive you. If you find a submissive or dominatrix you like but get to know that what they from a BDSM relationship is different than your desires, let them go. Do not change facts just to get them to be with you. Such a relationship won’t last long anyway.

Be Patient
Finding a BDSM partner is hard. It can take a long time to find a partner who you can be yourself with. When you do find such a person, be grateful for their presence. Respect their desires and stick to your role. You will need a lot of patience especially at the start of a relationship. Impatience will hurt your relationship.

Patience has to be there from the start and even if they tell you that they don’t find you compatible, you should understand that and never disrespect them even then.

Novice or Experienced
Be honest about how well you know the dynamics of a BDSM relationship. There is no harm in admitting if you’re new to the BDSM dating world. If you state yourself as a novice you might find a dominatrix that takes responsibility of teaching you all about the power exchange involved in a BDSM FLR. If you are experienced you could share your experiences to better your relationship.

Privacy
Know the level of discretion the other person desires and if you wish to keep your arrangement private, convey it to them. Some of the people you meet may want to keep your female led relationship private and that is perfectly fine. If that’s a case, a mistress and submissive should then sit down and come up with alternate titles to used when they’re around their friends because calling her a Mistress will certainly give it all away.

At the end of the day, it’s all about being mindful of the other’s needs while also fulfilling yours. Respect and remembering that they don’t need to be in a role they are when you around will get your places. Your BDSM partner sharing something extremely personal and you should be thankful for that.

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