part from their natural skills, everybody needs some tools to carry out the tasks at hand in an effective manner. An engineer, a doctor, an accountant, everyone has their own specific set of tools. Being a good domme is a special skill that is sometimes not found even in the BDSM world. The ability to dominate your submissive, enjoying yourself and getting them to enjoy while also taking care of the boundaries is an exceptional skill. Femdom toys are perfect for helping you dominate your submissive in a more effective way while also taking the enjoyment level up a notch. There is an entire world of BDSM toys for you to choose from. Every domme-submissive relationship has its own dynamics and there are tools that can fit every relationship’s personality. We look at some of the most used femdom toys you can buy today.
Collar
A collar is a universal symbol of ownership and shows you’ve submitted to your domme completely. There’s a leash that can be attached to each collar and is held by your domme from the other end. Moreover, if you’d like your submissive to keep wearing the collar for the whole day, you can detach the leash and let them wear the collar as an independent accessory.
Wrist Cuffs
Metal handcuffs are cheap but are no fun to wear for longer periods of time; the experience can be extremely painful and can damage the skin around your wrists. Let go of those metal handcuffs and buy from the huge range of wrist cuffs or ankle cuffs made from leather and other comfortable materials. These are more suitable for extended use while serving the same function of restraining your submissive.
Whips & Chains
What do you do now that you have tied up your submissive and he is at your mercy? You spank them! Spanking is one of the most popular fetishes desired and extremely arousing for the dominatrix and the submissive alike. You can choose from many tools that can deliver a good spanking. These tools can deliver both light and harsh spanking depending on a level you’ve both agreed upon or you know your submissive can handle. For light to moderate spanking consider using floggers or whips and for a more rigid spanking experience, you can a chain or bullwhips.
Male Chastity Device
You’d be surprised that a large number of submissives actually do have a male chastity submissive fetish but are shy when it comes to expressing this BDSM kink to their domme. Male chastity devices, also referred to as cock cages, come in different sizes and materials and although it can take some adapting from your submissive to get used to this device while sleeping, it can be done. The male chastity device is locked by a keypad lock and can be both close or open-ended.