Whips, chains, bondage and so much more. You may think you have tried everything but BDSM is very vast and so you should know that there are many sexy and fun ways to get kinky that you may not have explored yet. A whole new world of adventure opens up when you enter the BDSM world. The journey is that of sexual exploration and extreme enjoyment. The most important parts of a successful BDSM relationship are communication and trust, which, if there, can make the BDSM relationship grow and get stronger with time. All of us deserve a healthy sexual life, the BDSM lifestyle gives you that. It empowers and lets you take control of your sexuality. Listed below are 6 sexy and fun ways to get kinky with your partner.

Bondage is a term that is vast as the BDSM world itself. The ways it can be used and incorporated into people’s lives depends on individual preferences and so much more. There are several ways of practicing bondage which includes ropes, handcuffs and more which is why one can get confused on what to try and what to sideline. If you are a novice BDSM practitioner, you should start with something simple and build toward complex bondage positions and toys. Experiment with different stuff and techniques which will let you know what gets the best out of you.

The Spread Eagle
A great position to practice bondage with your submissive partner is to tie them up in this incredibly sexy Spread Eagle position. This sex position is practiced in the vanilla world too but can be a particularly exciting position if bondage is applied to it. The submissive can be placed face up or face down on the surface and both the ankles and wrists are tied to the corners. This provides complete control to the dominant and because the submissive is tied by all fours, this vulnerability turns on both the submissive and dominant. When in this position, it is up to the dominant to practice the kinky activities of his choice. The only thing to consider to take care of the submissive and decide on a safe word that can be uttered if things get out of hand.

Hog Tie
The Hog Tie is another bondage position that works great with a variety of kinky stuff. The submissive lies on down on their stomach, with their arms tied behind their back and then bound by the ankles which lifts the face up a bit and arches the back. Although this position can work well for dominants and submissive who love spanking, foot play and other activities it can be particularly useful for BDSM practitioners who love gagging or face slapping because it puts the submissive’s face a perfect position.

If your submissive is trying this position out for the first time, you could consider tying her up a bit loosely at first. If you’d put a ball gag in her mouth, make sure she has a safe gesture instead of a safe word in case of an emergency.

Hook Em Up!
Hooking a submissive up with the help of a chain puts the submissive in an extremely vulnerable state and a humiliating state of mind depending on the body part where the hook is applied. Imagine attaching a chain to your submissive vagina hooking it up with the wall. This would prevent her from moving at all and would allow for superior mental and physical control. You spank her in every you want; if she chooses to move she will feel pain because of the hook and if she doesn’t move at all she will feel the full force of your hit!

Leapfrog X Whips
The leapfrog is similar to the doggy style position except that the submissive’s face is not hung in the air it is against a surface. This is a very seductive and inviting position to practice bondage and whipping in. When in this position, the wrists are pulled back from in between the legs and tied to the ankles. Spank and whip her ass as much as you like!

Flogging
It is easy to for a new submissive to get sacred when flogging is mentioned because they might have seen forms of extreme flogging while browsing around. However, the beauty of being in a BDSM relationship that you both get to decide the level of ‘extreme’ in an activity. There are several different materials with which floggers are made of. From softer materials to rubber, leather and even steel or wood, you can decide the level you desire. Start off simple and move towards others as the comfort level rises.

Role Playing
Role-playing is something that can co-exist with all of the above and more bondage and whipping techniques. It adds more spice to a scene. Just pick a scenario of your choice and get kinky! The interests of both partners play a part in deciding the role and getting into someone else’s mindset makes you submit and dominate better.