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Members can now acquire 1 year subscriptions with bitcoin. Click the following button and follow the instructions in the pop up and we'll get you subbed right away! Click here to use bitcoin
What is Dommez?
Dommez is the world's first BDSM Sugar Baby and Sugar Daddy dating platform. The BDSM world rarely sees quality dating websites so we saw this as the perfect opportunity to create something so many people have been patiently and impatiently waiting for. Overall, we're here to be the go to place for BDSM and kinky sugar dating. No bots, scammers, or catfish, just good fun and kinky dating.
How can members get verified?
Members can get verified using any of our three in-depth verification tools. We are proud to be the only dating platform that has such a powerful verification system for all our members to enjoy and take advantage of. With us, scammers, bots, catfish, and fakes are a thing of the past.
ID Verification
The member can be verified with a clear photo of them holding their Valid ID or passport next to their face. For user privacy, this photo is not hosted on our servers and only reviewed by moderators.
Photo Verification
The member can be verified with a clear photo of them holding a piece of paper with the website name + their username on it by their face.
Video Verification
The member can be verified with a short 5 to 30 second video of them introducing themselves, waving hello, and saying "Message me on Dommez dot com".
My Payment Won't Process, how do i pay?
First, make sure all credit card or debit card information such as card number, expiration date, CVV, and billing address are correct and try again. If this did not work, please wait 15 minutes and try your payment again. This removes any chance of your payment being blocked due to a security measure preventing accidental payments. If it still did not work, you may contact your bank and request they allow the next attempt to go through or try another credit/debit card. If after all this, you're still not successful, contact support and we'll process your credit/debit card payment for you using other payments methods.
You can also try the alternative non-recurring payment options listed under "Payment By". These only work with our one year subscriptions. Read more about discreet payment options in the question below.
You can also try the alternative non-recurring payment options listed under "Payment By". These only work with our one year subscriptions. Read more about discreet payment options in the question below.
What are the Subscription Options?
Dommez offers recurring memberships that renew at different intervals. You may subscribe to a monthly, two month, or three month recurring membership. So for example, you subscribe to a three month membership right now, your debit/credit card will be charged today and exactly 3 months later every 3 months until/if you ever decide to cancel.
Alternatively for a non-recurring option, users may subscribe to our one year membership using PayPal, Bitcoin, or Google Wallet. We will notify all subscribers when their subscription is about to expire so they can add more months. Any time you subscribe using these non-recurring methods, you will add additional months/days to your subscription so you can actually increase your subscription length as often as you want without your remaining days being canceled out. We do not recommend fans of the platform cancel their subscription as prices will rise in the future for new subscribers.
Alternatively for a non-recurring option, users may subscribe to our one year membership using PayPal, Bitcoin, or Google Wallet. We will notify all subscribers when their subscription is about to expire so they can add more months. Any time you subscribe using these non-recurring methods, you will add additional months/days to your subscription so you can actually increase your subscription length as often as you want without your remaining days being canceled out. We do not recommend fans of the platform cancel their subscription as prices will rise in the future for new subscribers.
Can i subscribe discreetly?
Yes you can! You can pay for your subscription using Bitcoin or cash. Due to the extra work involved in processing these orders, we require subscriptions be equal to a minimum of 1 year or longer. Once your subscription expires, you will have to make a payment again to resubscribe using your preferred payment method.
To pay with Bitcoin, simply select the option in the "Payment By" drop down menu and complete the payment when "One Year Membership" is checked. You'll notice that the subscription options have increased in price to equal the cost of a 1 year subscription. This can be updated even further to two and three years.
To pay by cash, please send the payment to the address below and include your account name exactly as you created it along with your preferred subscription package. Once we receive your payment, your account will be officially subscribed within 1 to 12 hours. If the amount required for your subscription package is not sent, your subscription will stay pending until the remainder is sent.
Note: Subscriptions by cash are not currently available, please check back at a later date.
To pay with Bitcoin, simply select the option in the "Payment By" drop down menu and complete the payment when "One Year Membership" is checked. You'll notice that the subscription options have increased in price to equal the cost of a 1 year subscription. This can be updated even further to two and three years.
To pay by cash, please send the payment to the address below and include your account name exactly as you created it along with your preferred subscription package. Once we receive your payment, your account will be officially subscribed within 1 to 12 hours. If the amount required for your subscription package is not sent, your subscription will stay pending until the remainder is sent.
Note: Subscriptions by cash are not currently available, please check back at a later date.
How can i modify my subscription?
To subscribe, modify, upgrade, or cancel your subscription, please visit your Subscription control panel under your profile menu. Here you'll easily be able to pay for your preferred subscription package, resubscribe, upgrade to Elite Generous Membership, and cancel your subscription entirely.
What are the benefits of being an Elite Member?
As an Elite member, you will receive many privileges including always being at the top of all Sugar Daddy/Mama lists and searches. Elite members have their profiles honored with the "Elite & Generous" label and are recommended to Sugar Babies on their Dashboard every time they login or visit their account. Beyond this and other perks, being an elite member shows Sugar Babies your are the real deal. If you're an authentic Sugar Daddy or Sugar Mama, it is only appropriate you add the Elite Generous Member option to your subscription.
If you did not initially add the Elite Generous Membership when subscribing to Dommez, you can always upgrade your account to include it on your Subscription control panel page.
Can I pause my subscription?
No, at the moment there is no way to pause your subscription to Dommez. If you must take a break, you can easily cancel your subscription by heading to your profile menu and clicking the Subscription link. On this page you can cancel, resubscribe, and upgrade your subscription package at anytime. Please note disputing a charge because you forgot to cancel your subscription for the next month will have your identity banned from the platform permanently. Banks have a tough time dealing with disputes and we value our relationship with our bank so we will always fight and win 100% of all disputes.
What happens when my subscription expires?
Your account reverts back to its default state and you will not be able to view your conversations until you resubscribe. No data is ever lost unless you decide to close your account for good so rest easy knowing you can resubscribe at anytime using the account with an expired subscription and still retain all your data.
What is not allowed in my profile?
- No requests for sex or illegal activities
- No links, duplicate or copyrighted content
- No monetary amounts of any kind
- No commercial or promotional content
- Photos must be decent, no sexually explicit content
- Photos must not include children or minors
All members will be happy knowing that their profiles are 100% private. Whether logged in or not, no one but our Sugar Babies will be able to view your profile. If you have any account questions please let us know by contacting support.
Why Was I Suspended?
Your account may have been suspended due to suspicious activities. Being suspended means your profile still exists and its information and photos are saved but your account is completely disabled and hidden. Messages may still be sent to your account but cannot be accessed unless the suspension is reviewed and lifted by our support team. Reasons for suspension may include:
- Sexually explicit or vulgar language
- Sexually explicit content in your photos/bios
- Abusive conduct or abusive language
- Multiple reports by members about your profile
- Promoting/advertising a business
We have a zero tolerance policy for anything listed below so a second chance in the event you break any of the following terms is completely out the window.
- Using our platform to promote, solicit, or engage in prostitution
- Scamming individuals for money
- soliciting passwords and other identifying info for unlawful purposes
- Creating a Sugar Daddy/Mama profile under the age of 18
- Absolutely anything involving people under the age of 18
- You have disputed a payment that appears as Mimico LLC on your credit card statement
We reserve the right to suspend accounts for any reason we deem appropriate.
- Sexually explicit or vulgar language
- Sexually explicit content in your photos/bios
- Abusive conduct or abusive language
- Multiple reports by members about your profile
- Promoting/advertising a business
We have a zero tolerance policy for anything listed below so a second chance in the event you break any of the following terms is completely out the window.
- Using our platform to promote, solicit, or engage in prostitution
- Scamming individuals for money
- soliciting passwords and other identifying info for unlawful purposes
- Creating a Sugar Daddy/Mama profile under the age of 18
- Absolutely anything involving people under the age of 18
- You have disputed a payment that appears as Mimico LLC on your credit card statement
We reserve the right to suspend accounts for any reason we deem appropriate.
Can i tribute the Sugar Babies?
We know Sugar Daddies and Sugar Mamas love to spoil their Sugar Babies, so we've added a gift feature inside your conversations and the Sugar Baby's profile. You can send a gift anytime you come across a great profile or chat with a lovely Sugar Baby on the platform.
Do you have an affiliate program?
Yes we do and you can easily get started by visiting the following link.
Dommez Affiliate Program
No approval required, simply acquire your referral link, review its FAQs for earning and withdrawal details, and get started :)
What is your refund policy?
We have a strict no refund policy. We believe our platform is very clear and honest about what it offers so we will not entertain any refund requests. Recurring subscriptions can easily be canceled from your account at anytime and you will no longer be billed for any further payments. We don't recommend fans of the platform cancel their subscription as our prices may rise to new subscribers later on.
What is your privacy policy?
Your privacy is very important to us and our reputation as a trustworthy platform. Sugar Daddy/Mama information and identity is not shared in anyway or with anyone and nobody but the Sugar Babies themselves can view their profiles. We have absolutely no interest in doing anything with your private information but keep it secure.
What is a Date Proposal?
On every profile and in every conversation with a Sugar Baby you will see an option that allows you to propose a date. Using this feature, you can truly impress Sugar Babies with exciting, luxurious, and creative first dates. When a sugar baby approves your proposal, you will receive a green proposal event which you can use to schedule the date or simply continue chatting and planning the date within your messages.
What are trips?
Trips allows members to post travel, date, and invite trips anywhere in the world. Using this feature you can make your dream vacation, perfect date, and perfect romantic encounter happen all by posting your very own trips or asking to join other trips. This makes communication and connecting with lots of members interested in the same adventures a breeze.
Browse Trips
Create a Trip
Browse Trips
Create a Trip
What is a Date Scheduler?
Subscribed members can use the Date Scheduler tool to remind other members of dates and trips planned together including small details such as the restaurant, location, and time. Think of it like a reminder note in your calendar. Both members will receive an event in their conversation and an email with the reminder details. This feature is of course only for convenience and not required in any way to use the proposal and trip features.
How do i search Sugar Babies?
Sugar Babies can be easily be browsed by clicking the search icon in your header and the "Search" option in your mobile menu. If you're viewing the site on a mobile device, you'll need to click the "Filter" button to customize your search filter however you see fit.
Can i change my account type?
No, it is impossible to change account types due to the fact both offer features and tools vastly different from one another. Sugar Baby profiles were designed to be large and flexible while Sugar Daddy/Mama profiles were designed to be minimalist yet powerful. All users can own 1 of each account type at any given time so feel free to apply as a Sugar Baby and also date as a Sugar Daddy/Mama.
How do i block users?
You can easily block a user within their profile or within your conversation by clicking the "Block" option under the gear icon and you will never hear from them or see them again. If enough users block or report an inappropriate user or spammer, we will quickly suspend their account to evaluate the situation. In the odd event the user creates another account and continues to bother others, we will do our best to take advanced measures to get rid of them.
How do i hide my profile?
To hide your profile, you will just need to navigate to your profile settings and toggle off the "Discoverable Profile" option and it will be as if your profile doesn't even currently exist anywhere except to the members you are currently messaging with.
How do i delete my account?
If you really have to, you can delete your account by entering your profile or account settings and scrolling to the password panel. Under it you will see the "Delete Account" button. Click this button and confirm your password to permanently delete your account. You'll have to create a new account and subscribe to your preferred membership all over again if you'd like to return to Dommez once you decide to delete your account. If you'd like to simply hide your profile from all Sugar Babies and searches, please head to your settings and toggle off the "Discoverable Profile" option and it will be as if your profile doesn't even currently exist.
Note: By permanently deleting your account, you understand you will lose any unused time left on your subscription. Dommez clearly states we do not provide refunds on any subscriptions packages.
Note: By permanently deleting your account, you understand you will lose any unused time left on your subscription. Dommez clearly states we do not provide refunds on any subscriptions packages.
My emails are showing up as spam?
Occasionally, some email providers may decide to mark your email notifications as spam. In the event your email notifications are being sent to your spam/junk folder, please add the sending email address to your contact list and mark the emails as "Not Spam" whenever you receive them. While adding our email address to your contact/white list will most likely do the trick, marking our emails as "not spam" will help avoid this from happening to you and other users in the future.
I forgot my password?
To reset your password, please head to our login page and click "Forgot Password". Enter the email attached to your account and submit the form. You will within 15 to 30 seconds receive an email notification to update your password. If you do not quickly see a password reset email, please check your spam/junk folder as occasionally, email providers may mark our emails as spam. You can help fight this by marking the email as "Not Spam" and adding our email address to your contact list.
I'm getting an error, what should i do?
Please use our contact form to send a detailed description of the issue you're having. Include the make and model of the device you're using to access the site, the Internet browser, which operating system (Windows, Mac, linux, iPhone, Android, etc.), and maybe a screenshot of the issue. If we can replicate your issue, we'll make it a top priority to fix it asap.
Does Dommez screen users?
At Dommez we strive to provide users with the right tools to make informed decisions regarding who they seek dates and relationships with. We don't routinely perform background checks on anyone though we reserve the right to. Both parties should thoroughly screen each other before meeting and seize all communication with anyone they deem suspicious or attempts to engage in illegal activities. We want to build a trusted community for Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies/Mamas alike. To help ensure your safety, we ask everyone of ours users to report any misconduct, harassment, and suspicious or inappropriate activity.
My question isn't here?
Send us an email using our contact form or use our live chat feature and we'll answer all your questions in a timely manner.
A Dommez Disclaimer
This platform provides all bdsm lovers an elegant path to connecting for friendship, romance, dating, and relationships and nothing more. There is a zero tolerance policy for any Sugar Babies attempting to offer escort, prostitution, and even other legal services. Dates, dating, and relationships literally mean just that. Any user seeking prostitution or adult escort services from a Sugar Baby is using the wrong website and will surely be disappointed with their short time here, sorry!
How do i become a Sugar Baby?
To become a Sugar Baby you can simple click the "Join" button in our header and complete the registration form with all the required information. Once we've reviewed your completed profile, usually within 1 to 24 hours, your account will be live. Your account cannot go live or browse other members until you've added a bio and a profile photo. We also encourage all Sugar Babies to get verified using one or all of our verification methods if you're truly serious about connecting with elite Sugar Daddies.
Is Dommez free?
Dommez.com is free to all dominant and submissive Sugar Babies!
I can't submit the registration form?
- Your username may be taken
- Your email may be taken
- Your password is too short
This should cover all the reasons for registration forms not successfully submitting. If you encounter a bug or programming error, please report it to us using our contact form.
Why was my profile rejected?
- Inappropriate profile photo
- Profile photo did not include your face
- Profile photo included contact info
- It hinted at offering commercial services
- Inappropriate username or bio
Please correct the issues relevant to your profile and try again with a more appropriate profile.
What is not allowed in my profile?
- No offering services or illegal activities
- No links, duplicate or copyrighted content
- No monetary amounts of any kind
- No contact information, email, or social media
- No commercial or promotional content
- Photos must include your face
- Photos must be PG, no sexually explicit content
- Photos must not include children or minors
Sugar Babies can find all the information required to build an attractive profile in the Create a Sugar Profile guide. The article explains every section of a Sugar Baby's profile and what it takes to meet the standards for an authentic Dommez profile.
My photos keep getting rejected?
- Contact info and social media are not allowed
- Profile photos without faces are not allowed
- Sexually explicit photos are not allowed
- Profile photos must be focused on the face
- Do not cover your face
Review the Creating a Sugar Profile article for more in-depth info on photos.
Why was i suspended?
Your account may have been suspended due to suspicious activities. Being suspended means your profile still exists and its information and photos are saved but your account is completely disabled and hidden. Messages may still be sent to your account but cannot be accessed unless the suspension is reviewed and lifted by our support team. Reasons for suspension may include:
- Sexually explicit or vulgar language
- Abusive conduct or abusive language
- Multiple reports by members about your profile
- Promoting/advertising a business
- selling any services including massage therapy, pics, videos, cams
We have a zero tolerance policy for anything listed below so a second chance in the event you break any of the following terms is completely out the window.
- Using our site as an escort, this includes writing an escort style bio
- Nudity, violence, or sexually explicit content in your photos/bios
- Using the platform to solicit clients for an escort service
- Using our platform to promote, solicit, or engage in prostitution
- Scamming individuals for money
- soliciting passwords and other identifying info for unlawful purposes
- Absolutely anything involving people under the age of 18
We reserve the right to suspend accounts for any reason we deem appropriate.
- Sexually explicit or vulgar language
- Abusive conduct or abusive language
- Multiple reports by members about your profile
- Promoting/advertising a business
- selling any services including massage therapy, pics, videos, cams
We have a zero tolerance policy for anything listed below so a second chance in the event you break any of the following terms is completely out the window.
- Using our site as an escort, this includes writing an escort style bio
- Nudity, violence, or sexually explicit content in your photos/bios
- Using the platform to solicit clients for an escort service
- Using our platform to promote, solicit, or engage in prostitution
- Scamming individuals for money
- soliciting passwords and other identifying info for unlawful purposes
- Absolutely anything involving people under the age of 18
We reserve the right to suspend accounts for any reason we deem appropriate.
How to withdraw gifts?
Sugar Babies keep 70% of all gifts sent to them by the very generous Sugar Daddies. Check out the Creating a Profile article for information on withdrawing gifts. It's super simple and we offer various payout options including PayPal and Google Wallet. Just add an email, reach the minimum required to withdraw, and click the withdraw button on your dashboard or your gift settings and you're all set to receive you gifts within 24 to 48 hours.
Why do verified members get more benefits?
We wanted to do something different and special for our users so we became the most verified BDSM dating platform in the world. Dating sites these days are plagued with nothing but fakes, creeps, catfishes, and minors and we wanted none of that here. Sugar Daddies and Sugar Mamas love it and we're very happy to provide an authentic BDSM platform with real, verified members. With such a feature, Subscriptions to our platform are not cheap so Sugar Babies can rest easy knowing there are no better Sugar Dating platforms around.
How do i increase my chances of finding a Sugar Daddy?
Sugar Babies that are having a hard time finding potential dates should first inspect their profiles. A well rounded profile includes a welcoming 500+ character bio, at least 4-8 high quality photos, and lots of fun interests. Beyond that, Sugar Babies can take advantage of our wink feature and send winks to the Sugar Daddies they like. It's always a good idea to start with the Elite members since they are extra serious about meeting a Sugar Baby. If you're not the shy type, just say hello to a few members yourself. It's a new age and Sugar Babies don't have to wait around to get the date they want. If a member is visible on your dashboard and your exclusive search list, that means they want YOU to contact them and/or wink at them so take it as an invitation. Logging in frequently, views, and conversation event activity also help your visibility on the site. With a little patience, everyone can have a great time dating on Dommez.
What if i want to pause my profile?
When a Sugar Baby wants to take a break from dating, they can temporarily hide their profile from the platform by heading to their profile editor and selecting "Hide my profile" under "Status". Whenever you return just change your status to make it activate and your profile will instantly be live.
Updating my location?
If you'd like to meet someone when moving, traveling, or vacationing somewhere, it's recommended you update your location field within your profile editor to your current location. This is important if you'd like to connect with members closest to you no matter where you are or traveling to.
How do i search Sugar Daddies?
Sugar Daddies can be easily be browsed by clicking the search icon in your header and the "Search" option in your mobile menu. If you're viewing the site on a mobile device, you'll need to click the "Filter" button to customize your search filter however you see fit. You can also browse sorted Sugar Daddies directly from your dashboard, be sure to say hello to our "Elite" members as they are the generous Sugar Daddies in the world!
What is a Date Proposal?
Date proposals allow members to send each other exciting date and travel proposals for a special first date. Basically it can be used by any member to let the other party know they want to take them out or be taken out by them on a dream vacation or something as simple as dinner at a nice restaurant. You can approve or reject these events as you see fit and continue chatting.
What are trips?
Trips allows members to post travel, date, and invite trips anywhere in the world. Using this feature you can make your dream vacation, perfect date, and perfect romantic encounter happen all by posting your very own trips or asking to join other trips. This makes communication and connecting with lots of members interested in the same adventures a breeze.
Browse Trips
Create a Trip
Browse Trips
Create a Trip
How do i block users?
You can easily block a user within their profile or within your conversation by clicking the "Block" option under the gear icon and you will never hear from them or see them again. If enough users block or report an inappropriate user or spammer, we will quickly suspend their account to evaluate the situation. In the odd event the user creates another account and continues to bother others, we will do our best to take advanced measures to get rid of them.
I forgot my password?
To reset your password, please head to our login page and click "Forgot Password". Enter the email attached to your account and submit the form. You will within 15 to 30 seconds receive an email notification to update your password. If you do not quickly see a password reset email, please check your spam/junk folder as occasionally, email providers may mark our emails as spam. You can help fight this by marking the email as "Not Spam" and adding our email address to your contact list.
Can i change my account type?
No, it is impossible to change account types due to the fact both offer features and tools vastly different from one another.
How do i delete my account?
If you really have to, you can delete your account by entering your profile settings and clicking the "Delete Account" button under the password panel. On the next page, you'll confirm your password to permanently delete your account.
Important: To simply hide your profile from all lists/searches on the site, please visit your profile editor and find the "Status" select field under "Basic Information". Here you'll select the "Hide my profile" option and update your changes. You may return and become visible again at anytime in the future by changing your status to any other option available under the Status field.
Can i refer a friend?
Yes! If you enjoy the platform, please refer any local or international friends you think may be interested in joining Dommez.
How do i submit articles for the blog?
We encourage all Sugar Babies with an interest in writing fun and educational articles to consider writing articles with us on our popular blog. Topics include but are not limited to Sugar Babies, Sugar Daddies, the sugar lifestyle, BDSM, fetishes, travel, dating, educational content, and anything entertaining for our engaged audience. To learn all about submitting your articles and the benefits, please review our Articles Guide. All authors get full credit and a few links back to their profile on each published article.
My emails are showing up as spam?
Occasionally, some email providers may decide to mark your email notifications as spam. In the event your email notifications are being sent to your spam/junk folder, please add the sending email address to your contact list and mark the emails as "Not Spam" whenever your receive them. While adding our email address to your contact/white list will most likely do the trick, marking our emails as "not spam" will help avoid this from happening to you and other users in the future.
I'm getting an error, what should i do?
Please use our contact form to send a detailed description of the issue you're having. Include the make and model of the device you're using to access the site, the internet browser, which operating system (Windows, Mac, linux, iPhone, Android, etc.), and maybe a screenshot of the issue. If we can replicate your issue, we'll make it a top priority to fix it asap.
Does Dommez screen users?
At Dommez we strive to provide users with the right tools to make informed decisions regarding who they seek dates and relationships with. We don't routinely perform background checks on anyone though we reserve the right to. Both parties should thoroughly screen each other before meeting and Sugar Babies should never continue speaking to Sugar Daddy/Mama they deem suspicious or attempts to engage in illegal activities. We want to build a trusted community for Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies/Mamas alike. To help ensure your safety, we ask everyone of ours users to report any misconduct, harassment, and suspicious or inappropriate activity.
My question isn't here?
Send us an email using our contact form or use our live chat feature and we'll answer all your questions in a timely manner.
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Benefits
3 In-depth user verifications features
Say goodbye to scammers, bots, and catfish
Real-time messaging, video, and phone chat
Advanced filters and real-time searching
Always 100% free to Sugar Babies!
Elite upgrades & rewards for male members!
Send date and travel proposals + create trips
Diverse with active members around the world
Favorites, winks, gifts, activities, & analytics
Most authentic dating platform, try us out!