Foot fetishism’s simplest definition is a sexual interest in feet which expends into other fetishes such as Nylon and leather. However, this fetish is exactly as simple as it sounds. The preferences of how one would like to experience this fetish differ greatly for each individual. For instance, some would admire only a certain part of the feet, such as the ankle. Others would want to see feet covered by material or even get turned by an activity involving feet. However one wants to experience a foot fetish, this remains once the most common kinds of fetishes out there. While some may be taken aback when a partner opens up about finding feet sexual, you should this is not only completely pleasurable but pleasurable as well. As for any fetish in the BDSM world, it is always advised to discuss and take things slowly at the start.
Why Feet?
So, why is this fetish so common? The human body has numerous erogenous zones, why would someone get turned on by feet? Well, there’s still no concrete reasoning for this, however, there are several theories and point of views that try to explain the origin of unique kink. For instance, some experts are of the view that since the parts of the brain related to feet and genitals are located very near to one other inside our nervous system, it is very for signals to get mixed. Others say there may be psychological reasons behind having a foot fetish originating from experiences in childhood. We say, who cares? It is an extremely well-known fetish and if you have it, the best you can (and should) do is enjoy it.
Feet Fetish in BDSM
So, how does this famous fetish find its application in the BDSM world? One aspect of this fetish that dominants and submissives very commonly explore is humiliation. Feet are the lowest part of the body, hence a submissive has to get as close to the ground as possible to worship their domme’s feet. This a direct depiction of power play and points to who is in charge of the BDSM relationship. In vanilla relationships, partners with this kink want feet involved during intimate moments. However, when it comes to BDSM, activities involving feet can range from a submissive wanting to lick or worship their domes feet to something as extreme as trampling.
Talking Fetish with Your Partner
If you are the one wanting to talk to your BDSM partner about giving foot fetish a chance in your BDSM sessions, worry not. This is nothing to be embarrassed about. BDSM is a journey of sexual exploration, and you have every right to practice your kinks without being judged. Choose the perfect moment to talk to your partner. Start the conversation confidently and tell them you’d be happy to discuss thoroughly and answer any questions they might have. If they agree, take things slowly and build towards more demanding activities. You do not want to put them off with extreme demands from the start. Show them that it is important for you that they get involved and also that they enjoy this fetish as much as you do.
There won’t always be a positive reaction when you discuss any new fetish with your BDSM partner and there can be several reasons for a negative response. Do not take it personally and keep an open mind. Maybe they are already familiar with the fetish and had a forgettable experience in their previous relationship. The key to enjoy BDSM is consent and this is what you should be aiming for. Choose for a time when they are relaxed and you do have much on their mind. For instance, after a great BDSM session where you managed to make your dominant or submissive very happy. Come prepared to talk openly and honestly. Do not hide how you wish to experience this fetish. Discuss examples of how couples you both may know included foot fetish in their d/s dynamic. Learn and ready from the internet or, better yet, go out in the world and meet members of the community who have been in a similar situation.
Nylons and Feet
As mentioned before, different individuals find different parts of the feet arousing. There are some who love to see their partner’s feet covered with material. Bare feet just don’t turn them on. These materials can be anything from leather to fabrics, but one of the most famous ones is nylon. Unlike many other fetishes that date back centuries, this once is relatively new because nylon wasn’t even invented until after the dawn of the 19th century.
If you talk to dominants and submissives who love seeing nylon adorned feet, they’d give you all sorts of reasons for this attraction. One of the most common ones is that thanks to nylon, all those ‘imperfections’ such as different color tones and scars become invisible instantly. All you can see is your beloved partner’s feet in a sexy monotone. Another plausible, that comes from a dominant’s point of view is that when inside a nylon stocking or pantyhose, their submissive’s feet are bound and exudes vulnerability. Something any dominant would love to see.
However, that’s not the only way BDSM partners engage with each other to satisfy their foot fetish. There’s more to it than just looking at your partner’s feet. Some just like their partners wearing pantyhose during the scene, while others like to rip or peel it off for pleasure. Another common activity is to let one’s penis rub against feet with nylon and achieve an orgasm. These are only a couple of examples of how people prefer to experience nylon in BDSM. When it comes to BDSM and d/s relationships, the sky is the limit. You and your partner can find numerous other ways, in line with your d/s dynamic to satisfy this fetish.
