The world has existed for thousands of years, and humans have become a part of an advanced civilization for at least more than 100 years now. Despite this, our understanding of genders and their behaviours is ever-evolving in almost every facet of our lives. However, when studying behaviours and our tendencies derived from those behaviours, we often forget that we are just human beings at the end of the day. At least some parts of our personalities should not be overthought. For example, when it comes to sexuality and women, we need to understand that they are biological creatures just like their male counterparts. They have sexual desires that can range from vanilla sex to the craziest of fetishes.
However, it is to be noted that, at their core, women have always been the submissive gender, and more times than not, they like to exercise this tendency to submit during sex. The world we live in has realized that women can have their own set of kinks and fetishes, too. When a man thinks about having sex, they think of being that dominating figure who is deciding on the next moves during a couple’s playtime. Who is to say a submissive housewife does not have similar fantasies and wants to be dominated in bed? Too many couples fail to spice up their sex lives just because they are too afraid to discuss this housewife fetish.
Women’s Quest for Equality and Desire for Strength in Intimacy
There is a lot of ongoing talk about women wanting equality in societal rules. But does that mean all women who demand equality want that while being intimate? Most men end up making this assumption and deprive themselves and their submissive housewife of a sex life that can satisfy them. Women want men who can empower them to lead their own lives, but they do not want guys who handle them with care while being intimate.
There is something so strong about a secure man who lets his wife live as she wants. However, more and more women today have a housewife fetish, which means they want the same strong man to take charge during their playtime. A housewife spends all her day caring for the family and your home alone. She is in control of so many household matters and the lives of your family, which means her mind is always busy making decisions that matter. This is precisely why she wants to relinquish this control over her mind and let you have charge at the end of the day.
Embracing Submission in the Bedroom
If you were to really think about it, all of us, including women, are naturally gravitated towards stuff that is considered taboo or prohibited. The rebellious feeling you get when you feel you have deviated from the norms of society to attain pleasure for yourself is just so addictive. You would be surprised to know the experiments couples carry out in the bedroom and outside of it to spice up their sex lives. From public sex to sex toys for people living in long-distance relationships to food play, there’s a broad spectrum of sexual activities to add to your life.
Besides, a housewife already gives up control to her husband in many ways. She trusts him to go out and provide for her and her family. A traditional housewife believes her job is to care for her man, support her, and do what makes him happy. What men assume is that she leaves this desire to submit outside of the bedroom. The fact is that a submissive housewife wants to surrender control to her husband. And that is not limited to their lives outside of the bedroom. Just as she lets her man decide the course of their life and supports her in his decisions, she is more than ready to surrender control while being intimate. Just like their day-to-day life, she wants her man to take control and decide on their next sexual quest.
The Age-Old Craving for Male Leadership and Submission
When we look back at our ancestors’ lives, a woman’s role was always to submit to her man’s desires. That is how the gender dynamics were at the start of human civilization. That is how the society expected a women to behave. In today’s world, some women still embrace these traditional ideas with open arms. They prioritize their man’s and family’s needs over theirs. However, behind this innocent face is almost always a woman who desperately wants to exercise her housewife fetish. She is already conditioned to letting her man take control; she wants her man to step up and apply the same when they are in the bedroom.
After all, submission gives her the chance to embody her desire to give up control and trust her husband completely. A submissive housewife enjoys the assertiveness with which her husband takes control of her mind and body. When submitting, she is there to support her husband with whatever he wants to do with her and cherish this ultimate sexual fulfillment through her fetishes and kinks.
Bonding Through Submission
Several studies have been conducted that show couples who engage in the exploration of kinks and fetishes together lead happier lives. That is because they are not just exercising their right to explore their sexuality in ways they want to but also improving on skills such as open communication. Submission in BDSM should always be consensual, and that requires both the dom and sub to be upfront about their expectations. Both partners encourage each other to be honest, and it is not long before this need for open communication transitions into their daily lives.
Discussions no longer feel like arguments. They know that putting their points across will eventually help them reach an agreement. Moreover, a woman with a housewife fetish surrenders to her man, and doing so needs massive trust in her husband. When her man respects her consent and use of safe words, she knows she can rely on her even more. This respect for each other’s boundaries also applies to their daily lives. Factors like these impact a submissive housewife and husband’s life, creating a solid foundation for lifelong happiness.
Opening the Door to Kink
Suppose you are a submissive housewife or her husband who wants to discuss the possibility of BDSM in your relationship. In that case, your first move should be to educate yourself about the same. BDSM encourages consent, clear expectations, and setting boundaries, providing clear frameworks for all these activities. No shortage of online material is available to educate yourself about these topics. Alternatively, you can also join BDSM communities on platforms such as Reddit and Quora. Discussions with like-minded people will help you learn from those who were once in your position.
Once you have enough information, it is time to communicate with your partner. Encourage your partner to learn about BDSM or offer them your support in this regard. The lifestyle you both are about to embrace should appeal to both of you. Only then can you practice BDSM with consent and hope that it enhances your sexual experiences.
If you do not start slow, BDSM can be pretty overwhelming real soon for either of you. Starting slow guarantees, you never miss all the essential steps, from consent until aftercare. BDSM is all about taking steps together to eliminate fear associated with normal practices still considered taboo by our society.
