No matter what the sexual orientation of women, submissive or domme, successful men and power have always been a turn on for ladies. Have you ever thought of why a woman would choose a successful man over some who is physically strong? There are several reasons, many out of which are deeply connected with our personality but one of the major of why women like successful men is because they hate men without goals. Today women may be successful as well and earning the same, the gender roles may have started disappearing but when it comes to relationships, women still prefer men of a higher social standing to be their partner.

Instead of physicality women have always chosen for men with a superior personality. We are not saying that factors such as body build, age, and others don’t count, it’s just that women like men who have earned a certain status in society. Being with a successful man has obvious benefits, but why would a submissive or domme want to be with a successful man? How is the statement that women prefer successful men relevant in the BDSM world?

Power Over Sexy
Getting an ordinary looking man or woman to exude sexiness is not that difficult in the BDSM world. A domme and submissive can always agree to different terms to spice up their relationship. What’s even more fun is dominating or being dominating by someone who is powerful. Knowing that he runs the office by day and succumbs to your demands at night is a major turn-on for any mistress. As many in the BDSM world, many successful men do resort to an hour or two of submitting to their domes as a means to release pressure, hence it’s a win-win situation for the man getting dominated and the domme.

On the other hand, any submissive have double the fun and enjoyment submitting if the man dominating her has an authoritative role in the real world as well. Looks and physicality then become less important in these scenarios.

Dating Is Fun
Dating and relationship have been too stressful lately, and the last thing we BDSM lovers want is for our relationship to become anything other than fun. When the money is hard to come by, this mind of ours tends to wander around and can’t focus on something as intense as BDSM. Different types of pressure get introduced which ruins the enjoyment factor of being in a BDSM relationship. When your mind is not free you cannot be a good submissive or dominant.

Successful men have all they need which is why they love to and can remain present in the moment. They are able to show genuine interest in dominating or getting dominated which is why their partners are more satisfied.

Confidence is Sexy
No domme wants a submissive who behaves like a doormat. Dommes prefer men who have their own standing in society and are only ready to let go of their power for their dominatrix. Similarly, a submissive would obviously prefer a man who has authority in the real world as well. Some even say confidence matters more to women that money. Putting it this way may be classified as a long shot by many but it does get the point across.

Success instills confidence in humans and a confident man is more likely to hold a conversation in an open and honest manner. He is more mature in putting his expectations out in the open and letting the others do so too. And even in BDSM relationships where one partner is considered in-charge, communication can always help.

Don’t Take No For An Answer
Successful and powerful men do not take no for an answer and this works best for them professionally, but this works best for the domme and submissive power-exchange dynamic as well. A mistress would love if she has to work hard to get her submissive to submit. Powerful men have their own authority and submissive obviously love a guy he is powerful enough into molding her to submit as he wants. She knows he does not take no for an answer and has to do what he says.

Women have always liked powerful men. They know successful men have it in them to accomplish what they set out to do. Having a successful man as your submissive or dominant is ideal for both a submissive and a dominatrix.