Cross dressing, feminization and sissification remain some of the BDSM topics that are largely unexplored and many who aren’t experienced do not know why domes and submissive love the kink. Some people cross dress because they are transitioning genders and changing outfits is a set goalf for them. Others do it for art because they are interested in a certain fabric, while some practice it as a fetish. Submissives who love cross dressing often only perform well in a scene with their dommes when crossdressed.
Women crossdress all the time but that is seen as stylish rather than strange, however, the world is now accepting the fact that men cross-dressing is just as fine. A decade or two ago, when gender roles were strictly defined, no one wanted to be called a sissy and feminization wasn’t sought after as a kink. Those who did cross dress kept it a secret and couldn’t even come out in front of their wives fearing that they’d leave them. The scenario is very different these days.
Another point worth noting before we proceed is that feminization may only feel a physical change but it is first a psychological one. Also, feminization and cross-dressing might sound like the same thing but they are different. Let’s take a look at why dommes and submissives love these specific kinks.
Feminization & Cross-Dressing Fetish
Much like any other fetish, that of feminization is governed by one’s mind. Those who like to feminize love to be called a sissy and dominated by their dommes, These males love to obey their mistresses in every sense of the word. Someone who is into feminization may or may not cross dress. The might just dress up for a scene and that’s it.
On the other hand, some cross dressers might practice feminization as well. The may be completely opposite to their feminized selves when they are at their job and look for an escape from the normal routine for an hour to two. Then there are others who opt feminization as a lifestyle because they are always looking to take care of their Domme’s needs and obey her. There are also cross dressers who have nothing to do with having themselves dominated by some. They may just love to cross dress for other reasons and may be independent men at the same time.
Why Feminization & Cross-Dressing?
So what causes for males to cross dress? Are there any specific characteristics needed for someone to be classified as a submissive? Let’s look at some of the reasons why someone would want to practice these kinks.
Some submissives who cross dress report that like seeing themselves embracing the traits they have seen in the females around them. They found these aspects of a woman’s personality so captivating and attractive that they wanted to act them out themselves. BDSM is also a safe space for cross-dressing practitioners where they can find partners who understand them and don’t judge them by what they wear. BDSM is all about pushing each other’s limits, taking your sexuality’s control and not give a damn about any predefined gender roles. BDSM takes you on an exploration of yourself and your sexuality, a journey people in vanilla relationships just cannot embark on.
As a BDSM couple interested in feminization and cross-dressing, a dominatrix and submissive free themselves from any rules and limitations set by the society to embrace a zone they’re comfortable in. For some being in a persona of someone other than themselves provides them a chance to open up even more. Why someone likes a certain kink has always been difficult and since there hasn’t been much research on the topic of feminization, all we can is that BDSM preferences are different for everybody and are deep rooted in how we have been brought up.
