Trying out a fetish with your partner for pleasure is one thing but if you’ve ever been in a BDSM relationship you’d know it is quite different from how it is shown by our media. Being a domme or being able to submit to someone completely demands you find these qualities within yourself before you take it to the next level. Mainstream media has not been able to completely define what it is being a domme or a sub and has lead to several misconceptions.
Firstly, being in a BDSM relationship is not all about sex! Are you thinking of becoming a dominatrix and wondering whether it is more than just having sex with your partner or dominating and humiliating them inside the bedroom? If this sounds like you then we’ve got great news. There is a lot more to a domme than being a leather-clad women craving sex. It is a complete lifestyle where you dictate everything, yes EVERYTHING!
Another one of the misconceptions about being in a dominating role is that you’ve to be someone who would be able to portray a stern and strict look at all times. This is wrong, it is not about being draconian at all times, rather it’s about finding the perfect mix of power and control and being able to dominate your partner at all times.
The Perks of Being a Mistress
If you feel you’re an independent lady with a lot of offer rather than just fulfilling someone’s sexual and emotional demands, then becoming a mistress can open doors you wouldn’t have imagined otherwise. It can help make you feel powerful and strong. You will have the right to play by your rules while also being true to yourself and growing a sense of security about your own self with every passing day.
Imagine how your and someone else’s fantasies could become a reality. Being a domme, you would not only make yourself feel complete rather it’d be about mutual satisfaction of you and your sub since he’d want to be dominated, humiliated and taken his power away from him, however, you’d not be obligated to please that man, it’d be the other way around!
Being a dominatrix is as empowering as it can get. It is when a mix of being dynamic, trusting each other, fulfilling each other’s fantasies, sex and domination; all of it designed as you want, when you want and how you want it. You’d be deciding what’s best for them and they’d be trusting you with whatever you decide for them to do. A relationship without the strings of any emotional labor attached to it, if that isn’t empowering what is? You know you are a queen, you are an independent strong woman who can do whatever she wants and needs to be treated a manner that is respectful. Wouldn’t it please you to have someone around who’d function at your order, doing what needs to be done around the house while you sit comfortably dictating from your comfy sofa?
Being a domme is something many dream but seldom have the guts to realise this dream, but before you do, it is of profound importance to know that being in BDSM relationship demands a good match, a kink match if you will or else things can go wrong in an instant. Luckily you’re at just the place to find yourself a perfect partner. Browse from the first ever BDSM sugar baby site to get yourself a submissive you deserve.