Tattoos and body modifications as a fetish? We may not realize this, but every one of us has fetishes. Some are common, while others are there but still undiscovered even by people who have them. It may sound strange but even vanilla partners have kinks and fetishes, they just don’t know it. Kinks and fetishes are often associated with body parts, however, this does not mean that everyone would have, say, a foot fetish. Several of these fetishes, such as attraction to feet, are now common, while others are still making their way to the mainstream.
One such fetish that is not that common, or isn’t labelled as one is that associated with tattoos and other forms of body modifications. Thousands of people embody tattoos but not everyone gets turned on by them. Having tattoos because you like them is one thing and getting sexually aroused by them is another. This particular fetish encompasses the feeling of being turned on by body modifications such as tattoos, piercing and the like.
Tattoos, Body Modifications and Branding
The tattoo fetish, as obvious by the name, is when your partner gets aroused by seeing the parts of the body that are inked. In BDSM, tattoos can also be used to symbolize a submissive belonging to a dominant. This can also work well if coupled with other kinks. For instance, if partners have a feet fetish and a liking for tattoos, a tattoo on the foot would definitely double the pleasure!
The sense of being owned is everything in a BDSM relationship. It is a form of symbolization that can go from collars to something as minimal as tattoos. However, a key difference between every other form of ownership and that associated with body modifications is that being tattooed to symbolize yourself as a servant to daddy is generally considered suitable for partners that know there BDSM relationship isn’t going to a short term arrangement.
Moreover, body modifications are not confined to tattoos only. This can take several other forms, a common example of which is piercing. Piercing is something that is common but much like tattooing, this holds a different sort of value when in a d/s dynamic. For instance, being pierced by and going through the process of pain with her daddy could mean the world to a submissive slave girl. Pain has always been an integral part of the BDSM relationship, and the experience of going through with getting the piercing done by your dominant can be a rewarding one.
Another not so common, but very sought after form of body modification in the d/s world is branding. This is a more permanent form of modification. Many would say that this is the ultimate form of showcasing yourself as being owned by your domme. This is because where tattoos can be removed, branding is forever. This form of modification is more common amongst serious BDSM partners, which is why, when done, both the submissive and dominant take a lot of pride in their relationship.
Levels of Body Modification
It is often advised to start slow and make your way through almost any activity in a BDSM dynamic and body modifications are no different. From getting tattooed above to crotch to getting your genitals pierced, body modifications can go from normal to extreme in a heartbeat. This is why it is important to know the level of pain you’re able to undergo as a BDSM partner.
However, no matter how confident you are that you can handle the process, safety shouldn’t be taken for granted. Consent and safety first are the two founding pillars of any d/s dynamic and that should always be kept in mind. Another concern when getting yourself tattooed and especially branded could be the question of what if you break up with your partner? This is a valid question and can only be answered by you. Obviously, there is no guarantee of any sort in any relationship at any stage but getting yourself branded when you’re only a couple of weeks into a relationship is just not right.
Temporary Body Modifications
Body modifications do not all have to be permanent. There are temporary solutions for a couple whose relationships are still young but want to experience body modifications for pleasure. There are forms of branding that can be impermanent and we all know tattoos can be removed. There are also activities that can only last for the scene. One such example is play piercing or needle play. This form of body modification is all about the experience. Needles or any other equipment used can be removed when the scene is complete. This way couples experience the adrenaline rush similar to any other body modification technique however, the end result is not permanent. However, the pain still remains and this is where aftercare comes in.
Aftercare Matters
Regardless of the form of body modification, a submissive will go through a significant amount of pain during the process. Yes, they like the process but that does not make the pain any lesser. Wounds may heal, but aftercare matters. When a dominant cares for their submissive even after the scene or the process is over, it shows the slave that their master cares for them. This leads to happier BDSM relationships and helps the submissive trust their dominant more. Besides, taking care of their submissive is a dominant’s foremost responsibility.
