The concept of alpha females dominants and alpha male submissives is not that different from submissives and dominants in BDSM dating. Alpha Male or Alpha Female are by and large terms used for people in vanilla relationships. We, as humans, as have different personality traits, however, if we were to narrow it down to two, some of us like to follow others, while others are born with leadership qualities. Alpha males and females are very close to people who have exceptional leadership qualities, however, that does not mean that all alpha males are dominants when it comes to BDSM relationships.

We all know how rich, strong men love submitting. However, that can only happen if they find the right person to submit to. It may be very underrated in BDSM relationship and may even come as a surprise to some, but compatibility matters as much in a BDSM dynamic as it would in vanilla relationships.

Alpha Females Dominants and Alpha Male Submissives
The reason why Alpha Female Dominants and Alpha Male Submissives get along so well is that they are able to find common ground in a lot of stuff that they do in their normal day to day. Women who are in charge of their lives wouldn’t want a doormat slave to be their submissive. They would instead be more interested in someone of their own caliber and stature. The more powerful the slave, the more pride the domme will feel in bringing him to his knees.

This isn’t us saying that normal submissives won’t make good enough slaves for Alpha masters, this is just stating the fact that alpha males would feel more at home with alpha female dominants and vice versa. Besides, alpha men won’t let themselves be dominated by someone who isn’t powerful in their own life. However, if you are wondering why a rich, powerful man would submit to a woman, you need to remember that being alpha is a personality trait and being a submissive is a role. Hence, switching from an alpha at work to a submissive in a dungeon isn’t exactly them giving up their personality.

An Alpha Wants to be Owned Too!
Alphas feel the need for ownership, however, only by someone equally alpha as they are. Someone who they know would be able to handle them and they would find pride in submitting to. A strong man wouldn’t submit to just any other dominant. If exposed to a regular dominant, they will test them to their peak and would end up frustrating them. To control an alpha male, an alpha female who is absolutely and utterly in control of herself and her emotions is needed. It would take someone extremely strong in character for the alpha submissive to let go of his control.

If the submissive at any point witness weakness in their Domme’s character, they will notice in an instant and might walk away. However, once an alpha male finds a woman that can match our even overcome his strength in character, he will prove to be one of the most dedicated submissives that domme has ever been with.

Alpha Male and Alpha Female d/s Dynamic – Why it Works so Well?
An experienced submissive can tell in an instant if their domme is faking control. BDSM is all about taking risks and challenging each to maintain a dynamic you both want. Once either one of you feels unchallenged, it disturbs the foundation of a BDSM relationship. An alpha male submissive is obviously smart and wants to be with a female who challenges him on multiple levels. A woman who knows how and when to be in charge and flaunt her control over him. Basically makes them want to kneel.

Alpha men are generally dominant in routine life, in the sense that they are at a very good position in their life and work which gives them the confidence to become alpha. It takes a very strong alpha female for an alpha make to turn his alpha-self off and enjoy giving up control. An alpha submissive knows what he wants and expects from her domme to keep showcasing that. If the alpha male finds an alpha female capable enough to knock down some walls, this BDSM dynamic can be a most rewarding one – physically, psychologically and intellectually.