Movies like the 50 Shades of Grey, similar erotic literature, and decades-old gender roles have got us believing that men in higher positions of power also like the idea of being powerful or dominant in bed. However, in today’s world where expressing one’s sexuality is not much frowned upon, people are starting to realize that men are also human beings and like to submit as much as women do. Some survey results state that the urge to dominate and that to submit among men has a ratio of an even 50/50.

Men in high power positions such as CEOs never get the time to relax and being dominated in bed gives them a chance to be vulnerable every once in while. It is a sweet escape from reality and that is precisely why submissive males tend to hand themselves over to dommes. With on-going meetings and people continuously looking towards them for guidance, they face a lot of stress in their life. When with a dominatrix, submissive males who are otherwise dominant in their work positions, not only submit physically but emotionally and spiritually as well.

Vacation From Power
These are times when for a little period things are not planned and they can experience real intimacy. They let go of everything and let someone else take control of them. Why do we go on vacations? We take trips so we can relax and come back stronger right? While these successful men can’t leave for a weekend in Bali every 7 days, they definitely can visit a dominatrix and relax knowing that their decisions are being made for them, all they have to do is obey. This state of submission serves as a regular vacation for these submissive men.

With a dominatrix, they are told what to do and suddenly all the weight, which would otherwise be on their shoulders, is lifted. They don’t have to think and analyze before taking a step, they’re no months of research and even then dreading the idea of profit of loss, they are just following their domme’s orders, trusting her completely.

Submission Not Weakness
A submissive male is not someone who is weaker than regular men. Many submissives are successful, rich and way stronger than their dominatrix. Submitting is consensual and actually takes a lot of courage. Knowing that you are giving away all of your control to another being and have to follow their orders without saying no; if that isn’t courage what is! Choosing to submit to a domme takes a lot of willpower and an immense level of trust between a submissive and dominatrix, which in turn liberates you from the all the stresses of your everyday life.