It may sound easy and simple but being a dominatrix is not everyone’s cup of tea. It is not all about dominating but is also about taking care of the submissive. Being in a BDSM relationship can be both confusing and fulfilling based on how you look at it but if you are a domme in a relationship with a submissive Sugar Daddy, things can get confusing. Being your Sugar Daddy it is obvious he is providing you with some benefits so how would you go about dominating someone who you are dependent upon and how would you keep them around for a long-term relationship?

The key to a successful BDSM relationship with a Sugar Daddy is treating him with respect. It may sound strange at first but being a domme you have to realize that a submissive is not weaker than you but instead he has willingly chosen to let you dominate him. More than respecting your submissive you have to respect his idea of ‘submissiveness’.

What Does Respect Mean In A BDSM Relationship
When you are in a BDSM relationship it is obvious you both have some kinks and fetishes that need to fulfilled. Respecting a submissive simply means learning about him and how your submissive Sugar Daddy wants to be dominated. As a domme you need to communicate with him from time to time and get to know what he wants; this is an investment that will pay you dividends when in a relationship with a Sugar Daddy.

When he tells he needs to be controlled in a certain way, make sure you incorporate that into your ways of dominating him. He is a submissive, he wants to submit to you, but he has his own ways of submitting that he likes however that doesn’t mean that you are in not in control. For instance, you plan to take your submissive out to dinner. A few weeks back when you were both were just talking, your submissive told you that he would love to try a certain cuisine he’s never tried out before. Tonight when you decide to take him to that place, it is still you who has made the decision but at the same time, you have also taken care of his needs. You are dominating him while also fulfilling his needs.

In any relationship, a two-way connection is always important and a domme-submissive relationship is no different. Your goal should be happier together and contributing to your Sugar Daddy’s needs can mean you both are growing together and serving each other contributing to a long-term relationship.