Since the beginning of time men have always been in charge of major positions whether in the household or at work. There’s something about taking the lead and being an Alpha that satisfied their ego, however, times are now changing. Women, in today’s age, are not only leading households but nations as well. From single moms to directors of major organizations and presidents of countries, women are proving to the world that can work efficiently and handle as much pressure as men.

If we rewind back a few years, women leading relationships was still considered a taboo. Men may have been willing to changing give up their seat in an organization but were not alright with letting women take the lead in a relationship. Times are now changing and men are starting to realize that letting their woman take control of everything is not only something bad but is actually rewarding for them. However, the extent of power exchange that happens in a relationship is still up to the couple. In BDSM relationships, the power exchange could range from letting your domme take full control of you as a submissive in bed to let her make every decision in your life. Whatever the extent of power exchange in a female led relationship, here are few reasons why FLRs are just the best.

Mentally Present
Women are usually always mindful of what’s happening around them. What’s happening in the kitchen, what’s their kid up to and if something is bothering their man, keeping everything in check at the same time and doing all this efficiently. Because they know what’s happening at all time, dominant women in female led relationships might not say but they do take care of their submissive’s needs and wants.

Multi-Tasking
We have all seen mothers juggle multiple tasks at a time. No one can deny the fact that women are pros at multitasking. Jobs, kids, taking care of the household and also being awesome in the bedroom; women never shy away from responsibilities. When she does so much in a day and still be fiery in bed, imagine what a woman can do when she doesn’t have to take care of the routine stuff. A domme has her submissive to delegate tasks to, hence is she is an even more mentally satisfied woman than the normal ladies out there which contributes to a happy long-term relationship.

Organized At All Times
A tiring day at the office or a hectic weekend spent serving guests, no matter what a woman will still not go to bed after all this until and unless everything around her is organized. They are not only best at acting efficiently at home and work at all times but also know how to keep their relationships organized and when to take it to the next level.

Lesser Ego
Women are not afraid to admit that they need help with something; whether it’s a mundane chore or something troubling your relationship, they will make you sit down and resolve it instead of sweeping it under the rug. In a female-led BDSM relationship, a domme would still consider what you want because she knows being a domme means she has to now be responsible for two people: herself and her submissive.

Efficient Communication
Several research findings point to the fact that couples in a female lead relationship are generally happier. Why? The answer is because when women take charge, they emphasize on expressing themselves in a relationship and hence a higher chance of being in a healthy and prosperous relationship. Women understand that honest communication is more important than anything in a relationship hence they prefer avoiding the silent treatment and being open about whatever is bothering them.

Taking Control
Women are generally straightforward, they do not know how to beat around the bush. Some may call this being bossy but in fact, this means they know how to take control in a relationship. They prefer avoiding guesswork and being upfront so everything runs smoothly in their relationship. That being said, it is also important to mention that a good domme knows she is not supposed to abuse her power. In a BDSM relationship, a dominant woman delegates tasks to her submissive and stays mindful of her responsibilities; they both contribute to a happy long-term relationship.

Lesser Pressure
Once females take charge in a relationship, there’s less pressure on their partner. The submissive has less to worry about, he just has to do whatever the domme says. When a responsible domme and an obedient submissive get into a relationship things almost never get out of hand.

Improved Sex Life
Letting your lady be in charge in the bedroom is a fresh change for some and sometimes even a life-changing experience for others. This definitely spices things up and opens countless different dimensions to your sex life you would’ve never thought of before. The couples in a female lead relationship have improved sex life which is another important pillar of a happy relationship.