The original meaning of the word ‘cuckold’ is some who is really old, cuckold relationships can not be defined entirely by the word’s meaning. Becoming a cuckold for the mistress you love and starting a cuck relationship can be really amazing. For some cuckolding can be a form of relieving stress and for some, this can be a gateway of spicing up their sex lives. Although BDSM is a lot more mainstream than it was a decade ago and many fetishes have been now portrayed in our mainstream media, cuckolding is a fetish that is still not very out in the open.

Any fetish that exists in the BDSM realm can be really exciting, and cuckolding is no different, however for a submissive, there are some pre-requisites to starting a cuck relationship with their mistress. Firstly, cuckolding can only work well if it is a part of a healthy relationship. Cuckolding should not be your way of fixing relationships that are toxic or unhealthy. Partners who are looking to get involved in a cuck relationship should trust and have confidence in one another. Cuckolding should be an extension to an existing relationship and not something that brings mistrust to an otherwise great BDSM dynamic.

Seamless Communication
Cuckolding is a great addition to any BDSM relationship. All a submissive and domme need to is figure out how cuckolding can fit into their existing d/s dynamic. Deciding on whether a partner will be more submissive to their luck partner than they are to their mistress or the cuck partner will be more dominant with the submissive can help lay the groundwork. Cuckolding should not be seen as a fetish to check how loyal your submissive is. It is rather only a way of submitting to your mistress’s will. When either the mistress or the submissive want to introduce cuckolding to a relationship, they should first know an approximate reaction of their proposal by their BDSM partner. This will depend on whether their partner has ever experienced cuckolding in their life or not.

If your partner has no idea of what cuckolding is, you need to make them aware of it and help them learn once you propose the idea. If you still feel they aren’t ready, take time out to sit with them and communicate expectations.

Any given BDSM partner can be either receptive to the idea of introducing a certain fetish in their life or oppose it. Cuckolding is also not everyone and like every other BDSM fetish, cuck relationships are majorly based on trust. However, if done right, cuckolding can strengthen the BDSM dynamic at a level that only a few other fetishes can.

Trust From The Outset
Like any other relationship, a cuck relationship should only be started when both partners know that involving another in their dynamic would not hurt their relationship and loyalty to one another. If even one of you has a shadow of a doubt, cuckolding will make things worse and could result in a breakup. This is why the decision of starting a cuck relationship should be based on several different factors.

Loyalty
Loyalty is obviously the building block of any relationship and it is why partners trust each other. When starting a cuck relationship it is to be made clear the involvement of another is for kink-related purposes only and that emotions such as love and hatred have to be left on the side. When a submissive gets involved with a cuckolding partner, the mistress should trust her and know that they won’t get involved otherwise. Cuckolding should be seen as a healthy way of sexual exploration for both.

This is why partners need to sit down and decide what is it that they want out of a cuck relationship and what they need to do to make this fetish last long. Establishing rules and boundaries can, of course, can go a long way in helping sustain BDSM relationships.

Have Fun
Cuckolding is fun; it is that when there are no feelings of mistrust amongst partners. A cuckolding relationship can have many exciting dimensions depending on what the partners decide. However, jealousy has to be left aside and both need to make a genuine effort to have fun along the way, just like all other fetishes in a BDSM dynamic.

Why Cuckolding?
A submissive and domme will only get into a cuck relationship when both of them can get sexually attracted to the fact that one of them is involved with another while they watch. Imagine yourself as a mistress who wants their submissive to submit to another because she’d enjoy that. If that doesn’t sound like you, cuckolding might be the wrong idea for you. However, if you do like empowering another to humiliate your submissive because you want to enjoy, a cuck relationship can be extremely rewarding. Knowing that your submissive may submit to another to please you but will eventually return to you sounds exciting, but only for BDSM partners who trust each other!