The list of kinks and fetishes is an endless one, and many of these are attached to or stem from body parts. One of these kinks is the foot fetish. The foot fetish is very common and like many other fetishes, this one too is not limited to the BDSM world. Where foot fetish in BDSM can take forms of humiliation and foot worship, partners in a vanilla relationship find themselves attracted to feet as well. The fetish is feet is not new and dates back centuries. This Whether in vanilla or the d/s dynamic, foot fetish brings pleasure for both the one attracted to feet and their partner. Moreover, foot fetish, which is basically any kind of sexual attraction to feet, is more common in men than in women.

Although the may fetish may seem one with very limited possibilities, since the area to play with is not that big as other body parts, foot fetish is, in fact, quite vast. A submissive interested in foot fetish can be attracted to their dominant’s bare soles or if their domme has had a fresh pedicure. Several people interested in feet have reported liking the anticipation of what’s beneath those long leather boots their Mistress has on. So, the question of what a submissive enjoys as foot fetish depends on the individual.

Foot Fetish is More Common Than You Think
Foot fetish is one of the practiced kink forms out there. A reason why so much of the male population has it is because, this is a comparatively simpler fetish, one which can work with our without the pain, humiliation or worship factor involved. Therefore, feet lovers are not confined to relationships with power exchange rules in place and extends to Vanilla, BDSM, sugar dating or other several kinds of relationship types.

In fact, most of us may not realize this but almost all of us have some kind of fetish or kinks of our own. We either aren’t familiar we have one or too afraid to communicate this to our partner because we think having a kink, such as foot fetish, may not be welcomed by our partner. However, without honest communication, you can put your point across without sounding weird. And, who knows, your partner might be up to try your fetish with you, or better yet, they already like it. Once that door opens and you put the first step across, your partner may communicate some of their kinks to you. Having fetishes is normal. These should be seen as healthy sexual activities and you shouldn’t be ashamed if you find yourself attracted to your partner’s feet.

The Foot Fetish Dynamics
Fetishes and kinks work differently for everyone. How you practice them depends on individual preferences and the foot fetish is no different. As discussed above, some would like to see their dominant’s feet naked, while others enjoy more if they were hidden behind sexy lingerie. There are even foot lovers who absolutely want feet to be involved during sexual activity, or else they would have difficulty reaching an orgasm. A common example of how feet get involved in a vanilla sexual activity is a foot job. However, the activities under the foot fetish umbrella can range from kissing, licking, and massaging to more extreme activities such as foot gagging and trampling. Partners can and do enjoy all that comes with a foot fetish without power exchange rules in place as well, however, with BDSM any fetish becomes something different altogether.

Foot Fetish in BDSM
Dominants enjoy the attention to their feet by their slaves because, since feet are lowest most part of the body, for a submissive to worship a domme’s feet they have to get down to their feet. This act of kneeling to reach one’s feet is visually appealing to the dominant. This is like a clear sign of submission. Both dominants and submissive can have a foot fetish. However, if they both happen to love feet, then that would be a lucky power exchange situation. For a submissive, it would mean that they can not only satiate their love for feet but also make their domme happy. For a Mistress, having her feet worshiped by a sub would be both a turn-on and satisfactory in terms of the d/s dynamic.

Regardless of if a submission has a foot fetish, a dominant can make foot worship humiliation for their slave. They just have to figure out the intensity or nature of activities that would make worshiping feet humiliating for their bottom. For instance, a slave might live licking his domme’s feet, but he wouldn’t be that interested in kissing those feet if they’re dirty. Factors like these can increase the humiliation spectrum drastically and it is the dominant’s job to figure out what would be more humiliating for their BDSM partner. For instance, a dominant could make their partner sniff on their smelly and sweaty feet. The more humiliating for the slave, the more satisfying for the dominatrix. Sniffing on smelly feet may seem effortless, but it can become quite a challenge.

If a dominant feels that their slave is so into her feet, that he finds almost nothing as humiliating as she’d like, she can try more extreme practices such as trampling. However, for such activities, a safe word should be in place. If a slave is new to trampling, the dominant should start slow. Exert pressure gradually and work your way up the ladder taking cues from your partner’s physical reactions. The art of trampling may seem simple in videos, but it actually very complex, but equally rewarding.

All in all, a foot fetish can be as simple or extreme as you want. To make it extra humiliating for your partner, you could ask them to lick your feet while you’re involved in a scene with another slave. Other activities may include spanking their body parts, or slapping their face with your feet. Let your imagination run wild, and the possibilities are endless.

Foot Worship
There’s a very thin line between worship and humiliation in BDSM. The basic difference is the intensity of both. Generally, the activities that bring humiliation to a submissive are more extreme than those categorized as worship. Worship can range from foot massage to virtually anything a dominant would want from their submissive. Since every woman is different, it can take loads of time and practice from a submissive to perfect activities such as a simple foot massage. Another great activity for feet worship is foot licking. However, again, how passionately the dominant would want their feet licked depends on individual preferences. Sloppy or casual, a submissive and dominant can figure that out when they’re together.