The city of Los Angeles is often termed as one of the sexiest cities, not only in America but all over the world. And where you’d find a plethora of strip clubs and sex toy shops, if you dig deep and knock on the right doors, you’ll find that Los Angeles has a lot in store for kinky singles. California is exciting to live in, and this is why those residing in other states make special trips to the city of Los Angeles now and then. Los Angeles offers kinky BDSM singles with a lot of naughty stuff to indulge in. From purely vanilla swinger clubs from BDSM community events, LA is just the right place for you to find like-minded people. To prove our point, we’ve jotted down a brief list of what you can do as a kinky single while in California.
Bondage Ball
A regular for many BDSM enthusiasts and couples, the Bondage Ball is more than a decade old and takes place every year. It is often labelled as one of the grandest fetish events in the country. From the event’s hosts to performers, everyone loves fetish and is looking to meet more people like themselves. There are several bars for you to have drink and DJs playing your favorite tunes while you browse around different areas such as the dungeon, play area, kinky corner or secret VIP rooms and more.
Bondage Ball organizers say the event is open for all those looking to learn about BDSM, fetish enthusiasts, slaves, kinky performers or experienced couples. Head over to their website for dates.
Swinging Galore
Who says swinging is for vanilla only? We all know how BDSM makes every sexual activity better and swinging is no different. How exciting would it be to meet a couple and swap partners who then set rules for BDSM scenes right there and then? Or you could even swap partners but accept their set of rules to get an insight into how they experience BDSM. Interested in indulging in a bit of BDSM swinging while in Los Angeles? Head over to Mass Pleasures’ website for information on events. These events usually take place in posh, private properties which make them an even more lucrative offer for people looking to indulge in swinging in a safe environment.
Sanctuary Studios
Sanctuary Studios is another go-to place for novice singles and experienced BDSM couples. The studios are a public dungeon and hold a once a month event that is open to anyone interested in the world of kink. The events usually start with educating people on the foundations of a BDSM dynamic, mostly consent. The floor is then left open for further discussion or performances. However, even if you are a kinky single from out of town, no one would push you to take part in the activities that follow. You decide what you do at the Sanctuary, be it finding another curious and initiating play or just watching to learn.
The Infamous Melrose Avenue
If you live in Los Angeles and have the slightest interest in experimentation, you would most likely know about the famous Melrose Avenue – a go-to place if you’re looking to get your hands on some sex toys and more. Stores such as the Agent Provocateur have sales representatives that will help you select from a range of toys for your next BDSM routine. From lingerie to chains, shops on Melrose Avenue have a lot to offer. These could be of special importance to you if you are on out of towner.
Another great visit is the Hustler Store, filled with everything a curious kinky people or singles might need. Like the many shops on Melrose, Hustler too has a massive collection of toys and learning material such as books.
Bar Sinister
Bar Sinister is just the perfect mix of gothic and fetish. The bar holds weekly events in Los Angeles and is similar to the Sanctuary Studios in the sense that any and everyone is invited. You are not expected to partake in any activities unless you want to. The Bar has a dance club and playrooms for the public. It is also a great place for you if you are someone is fairly inexperienced in the BDSM world. The people attending such events have been involved in BDSM relationships and can give you great advice. You can also just sit and watch to learn while other couples indulge in BDSM activities.
Lot more events are happening regularly in California, however, the key is to first attend public events or places like the ones listed above and meet like-minded people which would then open ways for you to make just the right connections to end more community or private gatherings.