A thank you and yes mistress slave makes a happy Goddess. It may not seem that significant, but being grateful is as important a part of the d/s dynamic between a submissive and a dominant as anything else. Being thankful to your Goddess may not have kink involvement, however, it does wonders for any slave wanting to make their BDSM arrangement with their mistress a success. It shows your domme that you value their contribution in your life and do not take their presence for granted.

Gratitude can BDSM can take many forms. There are several ways to show appreciation towards your dominant and saying thank you is just the tip of the iceberg. Similar to letting your imagination go wild to find new ways to kink up BDSM relationship, a slave should not confine themselves to a few mainstream ways to say thanks and let their creativity lead the way.

Thank you, Goddess
Saying thank you would be a given for any submissive, right? The truth is many slaves forget to say thanks. It is a fact that in BDSM relationship and submissives follows their domme’s command, however, that should not mean that a slave has no reason to thank their Mistress. Being a dominant is a great responsibility and saying thank you for all she does for you can even help save your relationship if things were to go south.

Big or Small, Everything Matters
We all appreciate grand gestures, however, often times the littlest things can make a person happy and feel valued. Remember that not every domme allows their submissive to run errands or do chores for them. It takes a certain level of trust for a dominant to let their slave do that. Thanking them because they trust you enough to let you do it would not go unnoticed. It will make your Mistress see why she’s with you and may even assign more tasks to prove yourself as a worthy slave to her.

How Can I Help, Mistress?
She asks you to go out to the grocery store to pick up stuff or do the dishes and you are happy that she lets you do that. But have you tried to ask what more can you do for her? Or better yet, is there anything you can do for them without them asking you for it? Simple activities such as making sure they have a clean home when they come back from a tiring day at work will surely be appreciated. This shows them that you are grateful for them and want to care for them. However, beware, you do not want to go as far as doing something that makes them think if they are still in control. Never indulge in an activity that undermines your domme’s authority.

Be Creative and Spontaneous
Once you have spent significant time with your Goddess, you will start to associate meanings to physical gestures and notice mood patterns. You may even know what causes them to stress and this is where you should be ready with you can do as a submissive to ease them. For instance, you know your domme’s meeting at work did not go well as they hoped it would. Make sure they come home to a relaxed environment, and a submissive who is inviting…or is ready to submit.

BDSM Lessons in Gratitude
BDSM relationships teach you to be grateful for everything in life. Once you are used to submitting to your domme and be thankful it, you will learn to be grateful for everything you have in life and stress less about what you don’t. Thank your kinky Goddess for the privilege of serving her and she will do everything she can to keep your satisfied. You will make mistakes and when she gives you another chance, thank her for that too. Your domme is a human first, and she would love that her slave acknowledges all the effort she puts in.